While trying to load into a friends 1.13.2 server I reach the "Loading Terrain" screen before receiving the error message "java.io.IOException: An established connection was aborted by the software in your host machine"
Sometimes i will just get a plain "Timed Out" error message.
This error only occurs when trying to join my friend's server specifically as i can join any other server. I have tried reinstalling Minecraft and Java. I was able to join yesterday and nothing has changed except for that i downloaded a resource-pack which i have since deleted.
I feel kind of stupid as the very first attempt to reconnect to the server was successful. I believe the problem had something to do with the amount of players on the server or which player i connected after. It may be the fact that i was connecting after the host but i cannot be too sure