I keep getting this error no matter what, I dont know what to do to fix this. I've already disabled both of our firewalls, updated java, updated windows, tried using the server jre and no matter what I cannot get past this error and i'm running out of ideas. I've spent over 3 hours trying to fix this
we are on the same connection sitting right next to eatchother. we're also all on hamachi and their friend is able to connect and join just fine.