I want server where I can mining, crafting and then sell my things
and trading with other players. I want to make a money and then buy a
place, where I can build my own house. After that, I want some PVP.
Here would be a great place to start if you want to find a server. Here you can find mostly new servers, but from your description I take you want a towny server, in which you get to join a town, buy your own plot and build on there. You can search for those anywhere, and you'll be surprised on how many you'll find, you just have to look for them because your definition of ideal can be different from someone else's ideal.