I have recently started a modpack for the technic pack http://www.technicpack.net/modpack/un-lifestyle-modpack.658148. On this server we will be building as a community in a town and everyone who join must live in the town (spawn town). On this server there will be an acting government that will make laws and such. You can also make a family using the minecraft comes alive mod (limit is 4 kids for the start) do not join this server if you do not wish to be apart of the community we have established. All previous server members of mine have already been whitelisted so there is no need to apply. the server ip is 220.127.116.11:26619.
-Must Be Active
-You Must Obey Anything Advocated By The Government.
Hey, just thought I'd offer this for you, when a MCA Guard initiates combat with an AM2 Dark Mage, crashes happen on many versions of the mod. I would first test this to see if it causes a crash before your community gets too big lest it causes bigger problems.
If it does, you may want to change the spawning of guards or dark mages to compensate.