You're not alone, anyone who joins and immediately asks about the griefing rules is bound to get banned. There's just no place for that here because we all work together and play for hours on end. I give anyone under 18 one shot to prove maturity. already had to ban a few other people because they expected factions and the ability to steal. Sorry!
on another note, added:
actually, was not able to add Maahiya. are you sure that's your in game name? this is a PC realm.