So I have this friend, I met online...I like to joke around with him on minecraft. He hates when people dig in "his" mines so I just go tnt mining, that is different than mining right? I'm pretty sure he hates me as he blames me for EVERYTHING. Not even kidding...I flooded his mine was while he was down there and he asked who flooded it I, the genius that I am, didn't say anything, then he blames me for it! I don't know why he blames me out of three other people! Even though I did do it! He blames me right away. I also got mad at him for breaking my cobble generator when I was I a skyblock server. He thought he was SO smart, he tried to make it double, he ends up screwing it up. I was not please as I was almost done the challenges. Keep in mind that I do burn down his houses secretly sometimes, or take his items and move them some where else close by. If he is missing ONE item like, I dunno, a rose. He'll freak out and threaten to ban me on a server he is a mod on. I think he needs to control his anger, I'm only trying to teach him how to take a joke. So overall, learn who can take a joke or not...and if not, teach them
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Keep in mind things that are funny to you may not be funny to everyone. If he sincerely wants you to stop, and you keep destroying his stuff, you're not being funny. You're just being a *****.
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Keep in mind things that are funny to you may not be funny to everyone. If he sincerely wants you to stop, and you keep destroying his stuff, you're not being funny. You're just being a *****.
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And TNT mining because it's technically not mining, that's basically a mere technicality. You're being extremely annoying, I'd be annoyed by all that too.
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I like turtles.
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And TNT mining because it's technically not mining, that's basically a mere technicality. You're being extremely annoying, I'd be annoyed by all that too.
I'm not the only one who tries to teach him how to joke around, another member of my clan tries to teach him aswell...doing the same things...it's not being annoying, I'm helping him progress in life. Like a beautiful Butterfly! <3
I'm not the only one who tries to teach him how to joke around, another member of my clan tries to teach him aswell...doing the same things...it's not being annoying, I'm helping him progress in life. Like a beautiful Butterfly! <3
Burning down his house isn't funny.
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I like turtles.
Kerbals, kerbals, everywhere, where they stop, I don't care!Kerbal Space Program
I think you are in the wrong in this situation.
You are doing these things with the intention of messing with him. I am a pretty laid back and forgiving person, but when someone pushes me too many times, I snap. Just keep in mind that people don't like it when you mess up what they have been working on.
Empathy, empathy, put yourself in the place of me.
Minecraft drama. I swear, it brings tears to my eyes.
'Tis but a game.
I wouldn't really call it drama to be honest. 'Tis but a game. <--- Thats my point, people take minecraft to seriously, and I for one do not. I don't care if I get kicked for griefing on a no griefing server, I'll get back on anyways and act like nothing happen
I think you are in the wrong in this situation.
You are doing these things with the intention of messing with him. I am a pretty laid back and forgiving person, but when someone pushes me too many times, I snap. Just keep in mind that people don't like it when you mess up what they have been working on.
Empathy, empathy, put yourself in the place of me.
It's good that your laid back and forgiving, I am to! I usually snap a few times, not often though. I just think he is to uptight and whatnot, he needs to be more laid back like me and you <3
. . . people take minecraft to seriously, and I for one do not. I don't care if I get kicked for griefing on a no griefing server, I'll get back on anyways and act like nothing happen. . .
It has quite little to do with the particular game you think they're taking seriously. What it's more about is the time you or they invest in doing something, even if it's at your own risk.
You're not simply placing the occasional random dirt block in a good friend's house. You're burning/flooding things that took him time to dig out/create, that maybe he was even proud of or content with. To someone you don't really know, and who doesn't really know you. Calling him a "friend" is probably giving yourself too much credit, as I don't think the feeling is mutual. Sounds to me that he considers you a pest. And why wouldn't he? Time is non-refundable. Spending even more time to do things over and over just because you think it's funny to destroy his things is not a joke. It's called "griefing", and it's called that for a reason. Knowing that your efforts were a waste of time inspires grief. Knowing that there are other people out there who get a kick out of ruining things you spent time on inspires even more.
A lot of people play Minecraft for fun, to relax, and/or maybe even as far as to escape the stresses of the real world occasionally without resorting to more harmful methods. Some will play with other people, hoping to meet those who are decent and trustworthy to befriend. Maybe he thinks it's you all the time because you've not given him any good reason to think otherwise.
In any case, maybe you should simply stop destroying his things, and he won't have a reason to dislike you. I don't think I know anyone who'd find your method of joking to be funny if they're on the receiving end.
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I haven't spoken to him in three years.
Keep in mind things that are funny to you may not be funny to everyone. If he sincerely wants you to stop, and you keep destroying his stuff, you're not being funny. You're just being a *****.
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^^This
And TNT mining because it's technically not mining, that's basically a mere technicality. You're being extremely annoying, I'd be annoyed by all that too.
Kerbals, kerbals, everywhere, where they stop, I don't care!Kerbal Space Program
I'm not the only one who tries to teach him how to joke around, another member of my clan tries to teach him aswell...doing the same things...it's not being annoying, I'm helping him progress in life. Like a beautiful Butterfly! <3
Burning down his house isn't funny.
Kerbals, kerbals, everywhere, where they stop, I don't care!Kerbal Space Program
Just because you think its okay doesn't mean other people will.
Not really a house, like a cave with a wooden floor. Something like that. I wouldn't burn down a house that looks like this : http://imgur.com/djJy42B
I would never do that...mainly cause they don't have beaches where I live.
To get a rise out of him? Is that really light-hearted fun? Can't you find something better to joke about?
'Tis but a game.
You are doing these things with the intention of messing with him. I am a pretty laid back and forgiving person, but when someone pushes me too many times, I snap. Just keep in mind that people don't like it when you mess up what they have been working on.
Empathy, empathy, put yourself in the place of me.
Maybe you should learn not to mess with other people's things, and that not everyone has to like your "jokes".
I think I'll meet someone else...
Nah I don't want to get a "rise" out of him, I just want him to learn how to prank and other things of the sorts.
I wouldn't really call it drama to be honest. 'Tis but a game. <--- Thats my point, people take minecraft to seriously, and I for one do not. I don't care if I get kicked for griefing on a no griefing server, I'll get back on anyways and act like nothing happen
It's good that your laid back and forgiving, I am to! I usually snap a few times, not often though. I just think he is to uptight and whatnot, he needs to be more laid back like me and you <3
Glad you liked it
Maybe he should teach me how to respect HIS personal boundaries, maybe I would learn for like five minutes and then "forget" about them :3
I know right? How crazy!
"when are a massive ***** to them" Um...My brain doesn't process that right so..either It doesn't make sense or...I'm stupid :3
It has quite little to do with the particular game you think they're taking seriously. What it's more about is the time you or they invest in doing something, even if it's at your own risk.
You're not simply placing the occasional random dirt block in a good friend's house. You're burning/flooding things that took him time to dig out/create, that maybe he was even proud of or content with. To someone you don't really know, and who doesn't really know you. Calling him a "friend" is probably giving yourself too much credit, as I don't think the feeling is mutual. Sounds to me that he considers you a pest. And why wouldn't he? Time is non-refundable. Spending even more time to do things over and over just because you think it's funny to destroy his things is not a joke. It's called "griefing", and it's called that for a reason. Knowing that your efforts were a waste of time inspires grief. Knowing that there are other people out there who get a kick out of ruining things you spent time on inspires even more.
A lot of people play Minecraft for fun, to relax, and/or maybe even as far as to escape the stresses of the real world occasionally without resorting to more harmful methods. Some will play with other people, hoping to meet those who are decent and trustworthy to befriend. Maybe he thinks it's you all the time because you've not given him any good reason to think otherwise.
In any case, maybe you should simply stop destroying his things, and he won't have a reason to dislike you. I don't think I know anyone who'd find your method of joking to be funny if they're on the receiving end.