I for got to mention i have had an obbsession over her for the past 2 years and i own a gun...
You come on the forum for help, and then hint at suicide.
JUST ****ING ASK HER OUT ALREADY. Who cares if you get rejected, **** off and calm down. You have plenty of years ahead of you to find someone. You do not need to kill yourself over anything. If you don't realize that, I hope you do when a loaded gun is pointed at you. I know I did.
Don't be too abrupt with it. Things like this take time. Get into a conversation with her first of all- like, ask her about the homework in class, and then start talking about more casual things. After a while of this, maybe ask for her cell phone number or something. If she rejects, that's fine. Just find another girl. Once you're friends, then ask her to go on a date or something. Just be subtle.
I know it's hard, but trust me; it's more effective than over the phone or on Facebook. Girl's really do like confidence, and it speaks confidence if you actually look her in the eye and ask her out. Like I said; I know it might be hard, but it's easier once it's all said and done. What can anyone say if she says no? I mean, at least you tried. You'll feel better about yourself afterwards anyway.
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Some people use thought as an escape from contributing in life.
Just be confident. I know alot of people say that but it works. If you just do things really confidently then it works. So ask her out right, in-person in best, don't give the poem yet because it might seem a bit creepy. If she says no when you ask her out then just say be cool about it. This is just for me, but I worked out when you don't give a girl attention, they want you more? If you get me.
Do whatever feels natural. You only have 1 life (i think) so spend it wisely. Besides, even if it doesn't work out, it doesn't really matter. Usually, the real relationships happen a little later that teen-hood. If it goes crap, at a reunion, she'll just think that everyone was crazy and stupid at that time. Good luck!