I tried to do something like that. Almost got suspended, and the bullies continued.
Out smart them? Don't just be like "o no man, that'll never work. nothing works. q.q", do something. That is, if they're still bothering you but they're probably not considering how you're talking about it... asduonbsudhbfasdfv.
It takes A LOT of courage for that thing and if you are being bullied theres a big chance you won't have it. It took me 8(!) to punch someone, and after those 8 years of being bullied, guess what punching this guy did? Now he just comes back with more. Great. Punching doesn't always help.
No bullying is a serious term that you just obviously over-use, and people think they're in love cause they don't know what real love is and even something close to it is really nice and losing it can cause depression
A 'serious' term? I don't know about you but I'd rather be bullied than raped. rape =/= to bullying.
And a lot of things are really nice, you win some and you lose some.
****, the girl I really liked got pissed at me a few weeks ago, I didn't go bitching about my life, no matter how bad something is, life goes on. Wanna know what happened right after that? My beloved built computer that was only made a few months ago, crashed. Instead of bitching about it, I fixed it. Wanna know what happened the day after that? I fell on my back and got a really deep wound with 3 stitches. I didn't ***** and moan about it. Guess what? Throughout last school year kids called me **** all the time, random assholes would try to push me in the halls, I didn't let it get to me. I mean for ****s sake, 2 years ago a kid came up and in front of all my friends punched me in the face and pulled me to the ground in the middle of the hallway. Wanna know what I did? I got back up, then I was talking to him as a friend within days. I never complain about my life, it could always be worse, I'm grateful for what I have. Sure, people hate me, people get pissed at me, but at least I have most of the luxuries of any American.
"I think people who get depressed because of bullying are just being wimps about it. I get called names, ****, my friends non-stop called me "Cunningham" because they're rich and apparently since my house isn't a mansion I'm suddenly dead poor. (cunningham was a poor guy from to kill a mockingbird) but I didn't give a ****. This kid who I think is slightly crazy always comes up and punches me in the gut or grabs my neck or something, wanna know what I do, I give him a nice hard punch to the stomach.
If you get depressed because someone makes fun of you, then boo-hoo."
Well, if you get bullied alot, it means you aren't strong enough to defend yourself and you can't fight back. Then they just bully you more. And it does get VERY depressing over time when people call you stuff and phisicly injure you. So stop hating on people being bullied and start stopping those bullies!
You guys act as if I'm defending the bullies. I'm not. But sometimes what bullies do isn't really something worth getting depressed and suicidal over.
You guys act as if I'm defending the bullies. I'm not. But sometimes what bullies do isn't really something worth getting depressed and suicidal over.
But you're attacking the sufferers. It shouldn't just be a "boohoo for you" if someone gets worked up over bullying, especially when they live a very different life from you; it's never *just* the bullies's actions that cause people to develop self-esteem complexes.
But you're attacking the sufferers. It shouldn't just be a "boohoo for you" if someone gets worked up over bullying, especially when they live a very different life from you; it's never *just* the bullies's actions that cause people to develop self-esteem complexes.
If you read the post above, you'd know I've been 'bullied', and **** happens to me. I'm perfectly fine. I'm basically poorer than every kid in school, so most of the time 'depressed' people usually even live a better lifestyle than me, they just can't take some things. Sure, some more serious type things like not being able to stand up to a bully who does physical damage, or death threats, or rape threats or something, I can understand some sort of depression (NEVER suicide. No matter what the problem suicide will never solve it.) But people just get too worked up over 'I don't have any friends' Hey look, there's a kid at the back of the class with no friends, how about you go talk to him and make his day while you make a new friend. Or words. I hate to bring this stupid saying up but it's true 'sticks and stones my break my bones but words will never hurt me' how can they? People who let words get to them also let the asshole win, it's a lose lose for you if you don't suck it up and handle it.
If you read the post above, you'd know I've been 'bullied', and **** happens to me. I'm perfectly fine. I'm basically poorer than every kid in school, so most of the time 'depressed' people usually even live a better lifestyle than me, they just can't take some things. Sure, some more serious type things like not being able to stand up to a bully who does physical damage, or death threats, or rape threats or something, I can understand some sort of depression (NEVER suicide. No matter what the problem suicide will never solve it.) But people just get too worked up over 'I don't have any friends' Hey look, there's a kid at the back of the class with no friends, how about you go talk to him and make his day while you make a new friend. Or words. I hate to bring this stupid saying up but it's true 'sticks and stones my break my bones but words will never hurt me' how can they? People who let words get to them also let the asshole win, it's a lose lose for you if you don't suck it up and handle it.
You obviously don't know anything about psychology.
From what I've seen, The people who get bullied at my school have been the ones calling other peoples names! The tough and "sketchy" kids at my school are actually really nice and the nerdy kids are mean! It's actually unbelievable lol . The nerdy kids will pick on a girl and the popular kids will break it up! To me, bullying is a weird thing. Everyone has "bullied" someone sometime in their life. If you bullied. Someone a bit more, I think once you get older what goes around comes around !
Sometimes, just "telling on a teacher" isn't good enough. Back in gradeschool, I was bullied often, and that kid was suspended often. His parents were ****ing idiots, and didn't do anything, so he just got time off. When I popped him in the face a couple times, he seemed to stop. Sure I got in ****, but at least he stopped.
anyone who commits suicide over bullying is weak anyway.
by weak i don't mean weak physically, i mean weak mentally.
before anyone says "U OBVIOUSLY HAZ NOT BEEN BULLIED BRO"
i have. but it doesn't get to me because i've had way worse problems in my life then some kid trying to act hard infront of his friends.
i started getting bullied in 6th grade, it ended in 6th grade. why? because they learned pretty quickly that i don't give a **** what they have to say about how i look/dress/act etc. and when they tried to physically hurt me i fought back.
i've been depressed, too. not from bullying though, just from other stuff that happened in my life. if you're depressed over bullying, you have problems.
it's a harsh world
survival of the fit, only the strong survive.
Bullying is a test of strenght. Win or owned. I've been through it, and I am happy I went through it. It forges a great deal the character, and increases you combat(wether it be physical, or verbal) efficiency.
You obviously don't know anything about psychology.
Why would I not know anything about psychology? Why would I need to know anything about psychology? Social Darwinism is all that needs to be applied here. Only the strongest survive. If you're gonna become depressed because you're bullied then you're just lazy. ****, take some time, get ripped, and beat the living **** out of the kid if you need to. You're not completely helpless when you get bullied, you do have a chance, but all these pessimistic kids think their lives are ruined and they can't do anything about it. They can. Depression is just too extreme for something so miniscule. And, social darwinism my friend, if bullying is going to get to you like that, then you're not going to stand a chance in the real world.
Why would I not know anything about psychology? Why would I need to know anything about psychology? Social Darwinism is all that needs to be applied here. Only the strongest survive. If you're gonna become depressed because you're bullied then you're just lazy. ****, take some time, get ripped, and beat the living **** out of the kid if you need to. You're not completely helpless when you get bullied, you do have a chance, but all these pessimistic kids think their lives are ruined and they can't do anything about it. They can. Depression is just too extreme for something so miniscule. And, social darwinism my friend, if bullying is going to get to you like that, then you're not going to stand a chance in the real world.
I would really love it if everything in our schools had this same philosophy. Don't understand calculus? **** you kid, learn it by yourself. You were sick? Sucks to be you, maybe now you'll be more careful about other people sneezing.
/sarcasm
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It's like a circle-jerk of family values, Christianity and nationalism.
Out smart them? Don't just be like "o no man, that'll never work. nothing works. q.q", do something. That is, if they're still bothering you but they're probably not considering how you're talking about it... asduonbsudhbfasdfv.
It takes A LOT of courage for that thing and if you are being bullied theres a big chance you won't have it. It took me 8(!) to punch someone, and after those 8 years of being bullied, guess what punching this guy did? Now he just comes back with more. Great. Punching doesn't always help.
A 'serious' term? I don't know about you but I'd rather be bullied than raped. rape =/= to bullying.
And a lot of things are really nice, you win some and you lose some.
****, the girl I really liked got pissed at me a few weeks ago, I didn't go bitching about my life, no matter how bad something is, life goes on. Wanna know what happened right after that? My beloved built computer that was only made a few months ago, crashed. Instead of bitching about it, I fixed it. Wanna know what happened the day after that? I fell on my back and got a really deep wound with 3 stitches. I didn't ***** and moan about it. Guess what? Throughout last school year kids called me **** all the time, random assholes would try to push me in the halls, I didn't let it get to me. I mean for ****s sake, 2 years ago a kid came up and in front of all my friends punched me in the face and pulled me to the ground in the middle of the hallway. Wanna know what I did? I got back up, then I was talking to him as a friend within days. I never complain about my life, it could always be worse, I'm grateful for what I have. Sure, people hate me, people get pissed at me, but at least I have most of the luxuries of any American.
You guys act as if I'm defending the bullies. I'm not. But sometimes what bullies do isn't really something worth getting depressed and suicidal over.
But you're attacking the sufferers. It shouldn't just be a "boohoo for you" if someone gets worked up over bullying, especially when they live a very different life from you; it's never *just* the bullies's actions that cause people to develop self-esteem complexes.
If you read the post above, you'd know I've been 'bullied', and **** happens to me. I'm perfectly fine. I'm basically poorer than every kid in school, so most of the time 'depressed' people usually even live a better lifestyle than me, they just can't take some things. Sure, some more serious type things like not being able to stand up to a bully who does physical damage, or death threats, or rape threats or something, I can understand some sort of depression (NEVER suicide. No matter what the problem suicide will never solve it.) But people just get too worked up over 'I don't have any friends' Hey look, there's a kid at the back of the class with no friends, how about you go talk to him and make his day while you make a new friend. Or words. I hate to bring this stupid saying up but it's true 'sticks and stones my break my bones but words will never hurt me' how can they? People who let words get to them also let the asshole win, it's a lose lose for you if you don't suck it up and handle it.
You obviously don't know anything about psychology.
Then it stops. At least, it did for me.
If you're being bullied by a girl, well, you're out of luck.
*walks away*
Sometimes, people just want to take care of their own problems...on their own.
by weak i don't mean weak physically, i mean weak mentally.
before anyone says "U OBVIOUSLY HAZ NOT BEEN BULLIED BRO"
i have. but it doesn't get to me because i've had way worse problems in my life then some kid trying to act hard infront of his friends.
i started getting bullied in 6th grade, it ended in 6th grade. why? because they learned pretty quickly that i don't give a **** what they have to say about how i look/dress/act etc. and when they tried to physically hurt me i fought back.
i've been depressed, too. not from bullying though, just from other stuff that happened in my life. if you're depressed over bullying, you have problems.
it's a harsh world
survival of the fit, only the strong survive.
Why would I not know anything about psychology? Why would I need to know anything about psychology? Social Darwinism is all that needs to be applied here. Only the strongest survive. If you're gonna become depressed because you're bullied then you're just lazy. ****, take some time, get ripped, and beat the living **** out of the kid if you need to. You're not completely helpless when you get bullied, you do have a chance, but all these pessimistic kids think their lives are ruined and they can't do anything about it. They can. Depression is just too extreme for something so miniscule. And, social darwinism my friend, if bullying is going to get to you like that, then you're not going to stand a chance in the real world.
I would really love it if everything in our schools had this same philosophy. Don't understand calculus? **** you kid, learn it by yourself. You were sick? Sucks to be you, maybe now you'll be more careful about other people sneezing.
/sarcasm