What are your views on cheating? By cheating I mean on a spouse or girlfriend.
I believe cheating is bad, I would never cheat on my wife with another women. I've had lustful thoughts about other women, but I would never betray someone like that.
I would never cheat on a girl... I know from experience what its like to be cheated on, its terrible. However, if my GF cheats on me, ill make sure to **** her twin sister as payback.
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I think it is bad, but I wouldn't over react about it. I'd actually talk it out because freaking out over it can actually be a worse mistake than cheating.
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I'm a pragmatist, a realist and an opportunist (or so I like to say). Wrongness is such a subjective term.
These terms don't just mean whatever you want them to mean. None of them give you very good grounds to support your above comment.
Pragmatism holds humanist values. You'd be conflicting with a few here, namely tact and bildung.
Realism is neither here nor there.
Opportunist... okay maybe? Only in a narrow sense, and only when cheating puts you in a position better than before. This conflicts with pragmatism greatly and has little to nothing to do with whether or not your partner "deserves it".
Also, a completely subjective morality also conflicts with pragmatism. Pragmatism, rather, tends to avoid the dichotomy altogether between relativism and objectivism.
I chose depends because I assumed the topic was about unfair play in games. Guess I should have read the first post. It would have been helpful if the poll was worded better.
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That guy walking in is going to be in for a surprise if he's thinking about cheating on that man's wife while he has a deadly glass of wine in his hand.
Well yeah cheating is bad I've been cheated on. First relationship, was with another guy, and when I found out we settled it like men. Of course he didn't know I had found out, so it was more I settled it with my fist and then left.
I could never cheat on someone, and I dont think I would handle it any better if it happened again even, or possibly especially, if it was with a lady. Which is bad but I'm just like that so.
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Now that being said. Ponies.
**** I hit the wrong answer without reading the question.
Yes cheating is bad and I have a friend who's personally going through some serious **** with it. I feel so bad for them, but I can't really do anything about it.
**** I hit the wrong answer without reading the question.
Yes cheating is bad and I have a friend who's personally going through some serious **** with it. I feel so bad for them, but I can't really do anything about it.
"Cheating? NO!
Oh wait, crap!"
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But anyway, I feel little urge to "play fair", let alone cheat.
It depends on the situation. Anytime you're in a meaningful romantic relationship it is wrong to have sexual intercourse with another person without your [girl/boyfriend or husband/wife]'s consent. But it is possible for two people to be in love and agree that they can still sleep with other people.
I've never taken advantage of this privilage but my wife has told me that I can sleep with other women if I choose... under the condition that I am open and honest about it. She didn't ask me to but I promised her I would consult her before sleeping with another woman. But, frankly, I doubt anything like that will happen. At least not in the near future. I am attracted to other women but I love my wife very much and I'd probably worry about her feelings even if she gave me permission.
I've never taken advantage of this privilage but my wife has told me that I can sleep with other women if I choose... under the condition that I am open and honest about it. She didn't ask me to but I promised her I would consult her before sleeping with another woman. But, frankly, I doubt anything like that will happen. At least not in the near future. I am attracted to other women but I love my wife very much and I'd probably worry about her feelings even if she gave me permission.
I've always marveled at women (and men!) who give this sort of permission. Open relationships fascinate me because I'm curious to see how much trouble it would introduce into the relationship. I also wonder if maybe it's the more mature way to deal with relationships. Isn't it a little greedy to expect to own another's sexuality for their entire life?
I've examined this topic with my wife a few times. I really have little interest in trying it out (I wouldn't have anyone to try it out with!), but I find it interesting anyway. I've talked with a few people who've been in open marriages, and from what I've gathered, most people are simply not fit to make it work.
It's like the problem of the threesome. Someone is going to feel left out. Jealousy seems unavoidable. As fun as a threesome might sound, the potential fallout makes it seem less appealing.
If you ever pursue another romantic engagement, then I wish you luck. At the same time, your apprehensions might be warning you that it truly isn't a good idea.
I believe cheating is bad, I would never cheat on my wife with another women. I've had lustful thoughts about other women, but I would never betray someone like that.
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I bang 'em as I see 'em.
He dead. I would actually do a threesome So i dont mind cheating that much.
Eyes that see wrong in others have a tendency to create wrongness where they see it.
These terms don't just mean whatever you want them to mean. None of them give you very good grounds to support your above comment.
Pragmatism holds humanist values. You'd be conflicting with a few here, namely tact and bildung.
Realism is neither here nor there.
Opportunist... okay maybe? Only in a narrow sense, and only when cheating puts you in a position better than before. This conflicts with pragmatism greatly and has little to nothing to do with whether or not your partner "deserves it".
Also, a completely subjective morality also conflicts with pragmatism. Pragmatism, rather, tends to avoid the dichotomy altogether between relativism and objectivism.
Yep. That's about it.
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I could never cheat on someone, and I dont think I would handle it any better if it happened again even, or possibly especially, if it was with a lady. Which is bad but I'm just like that so.
Now that being said. Ponies.
My first boyfriend cheated on me, and I caught them just like in that picture, except they were already at it.
MineScience - viewtopic.php?f=25&t=166560
Dragonator - viewtopic.php?f=25&t=141803
Sand Skiffs - viewtopic.php?f=25&t=233346
Just kidding, I've never had girlfriend.
You heard that, green and red.
Yes cheating is bad and I have a friend who's personally going through some serious **** with it. I feel so bad for them, but I can't really do anything about it.
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"Cheating? NO!
Oh wait, crap!"
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But anyway, I feel little urge to "play fair", let alone cheat.
I've never taken advantage of this privilage but my wife has told me that I can sleep with other women if I choose... under the condition that I am open and honest about it. She didn't ask me to but I promised her I would consult her before sleeping with another woman. But, frankly, I doubt anything like that will happen. At least not in the near future. I am attracted to other women but I love my wife very much and I'd probably worry about her feelings even if she gave me permission.
I've always marveled at women (and men!) who give this sort of permission. Open relationships fascinate me because I'm curious to see how much trouble it would introduce into the relationship. I also wonder if maybe it's the more mature way to deal with relationships. Isn't it a little greedy to expect to own another's sexuality for their entire life?
I've examined this topic with my wife a few times. I really have little interest in trying it out (I wouldn't have anyone to try it out with!), but I find it interesting anyway. I've talked with a few people who've been in open marriages, and from what I've gathered, most people are simply not fit to make it work.
It's like the problem of the threesome. Someone is going to feel left out. Jealousy seems unavoidable. As fun as a threesome might sound, the potential fallout makes it seem less appealing.
If you ever pursue another romantic engagement, then I wish you luck. At the same time, your apprehensions might be warning you that it truly isn't a good idea.