I have a friend who has a really mean mom. Like, she abuses him. And so he also has this nice father. So they live by my Friend going to his fathers house on the weekends and going to his moms during the week. BUT. His father is going to be gone for 8 years due to a job. My friend will be in collage and never see his father till then. Which means he has to stay with his mom which is very un-likly due to the fact that she might kill him. The father needs custody to take my friend with him for 8 years. BUT the judge is sexist and likes the mom more than the dad even though he's the better father. He asked me to pray to him. He must really need help....
But, can you guys please help me on another solution?
I thought that my friend could go with his dad for 4 years, then go to his moms. He will only be at his moms for 3 years until going to collage.
I have a friend who has a really mean mom. Like, she abuses him. And so he also has this nice father. So they live by my Friend going to his fathers house on the weekends and going to his moms during the week. BUT. His father is going to be gone for 8 years due to a job. My friend will be in collage and never see his father till then. Which means he has to stay with his mom which is very un-likly due to the fact that she might kill him. The father needs custody to take my friend with him for 8 years. BUT the judge is sexist and likes the mom more than the dad even though he's the better father. He asked me to pray to him. He must really need help....
But, can you guys please help me on another solution?
I thought that my friend could go with his dad for 4 years, then go to his moms. He will only be at his moms for 3 years until going to collage.
Ouch, if you can present evidence of abuse, he will either be adopted or sent with his father.
Also tell the judge "Huge ***** bluh bluh"
I'd suggest maybe secretly record it or something.
Have you got substantial evidence that the father is being abused? If so, that should speak volumes.
If the judge chooses to ignore the evidence, I'm sure there's a way to get him in trouble for obstruction of justice. After all, judges aren't invincible, they're just damn hard to convict.
In the states I think there is a clause where you can change judge if you feel it is an unfair trial. However, I think the case has to be first reviewed to be determined unfair. Unfortunately they would need hard evidence to get anything through; when it comes to custody teh courts are biased to giving children to their mothers (all judges, not only the female ones)
Honestly, evidence speaks volumes. Hell, usually if the child speaks out the courts will tend towards the childs` wishes. Tell your friend to testify against his mother and testify for his father.
Take your knife,And do what first comes to mind... >;3
My friend considered this. Yes, this is that bad. And we contacted a teacher, and his dad. My friend just broke out in tears to tell us. He told a teacher. I have no clue what she said because is was none of my beewax to know. His dad knows about this but is figuring out what to do. And btw, the judge is female so it kinda makes sense she would like woman more than men. I asked my friend to get more info on the abuse, and he has not told me anything yet and........He stole 50 cents from me that i was going to use on a snack machine. I'm pissed off right now. "I will handle this."
Instead of praying and posting on this forum, CONTACT CHILD PROTECTIVE SERVICES. If they don't listen, see if you can photograph your friend's bruises and/or get some other form of evidence so that they do something. Hell, call CPS every day and badger them until they do something.
If you feel that your friend's life is in immediate danger and that there is a risk he could be killed soon, call the police. But only do this if it is an EMERGENCY.
Instead of praying and posting on this forum, CONTACT CHILD PROTECTIVE SERVICES. If they don't listen, see if you can photograph your friend's bruises and/or get some other form of evidence so that they do something. Hell, call CPS every day and badger them until they do something.
If you feel that your friend's life is in immediate danger and that there is a risk he could be killed soon, call the police. But only do this if it is an EMERGENCY.
lol, i'm only 12. My friend could be lying about his abuse from his mom, but that's not the point. How can his dad get custody instead of the mom. Yes, i know we will need proof, and my friend is working on it. He is at his dad's though- it's the weekend. :biggrin.gif:
Btw, His dad leaves on March 28th. REALLY SOON. AND REALLY URGENT.
Whats his age?? Try to get some money so that your friend can rent a house? In the mean time he can get a part time job. I mean it will take some time and pain for that money. But it sounds that its better to life there?
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lol, i'm only 12
I imagine his friend is the same age. Or at least around about the same age.
If all else fails, tell your friend to scream out that he hates his mother and she abuses him in court, does she have anger issues? If he says something that makes her explode and hurt him she'll be exposed.
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If all else fails, tell your friend to scream out that he hates his mother and she abuses him in court, does she have anger issues? If he says something that makes her explode and hurt him she'll be exposed.
Good idea, and yes, my friend is really 11. We are in the 6th grade. My friend might've lied about his mom, because he does not make any effort when i told him your ideas. Maybe he wants to be with his mom. Dunno. Wait. HE HATES HIS MOM. So........I guess this thread is killed now.
But, can you guys please help me on another solution?
I thought that my friend could go with his dad for 4 years, then go to his moms. He will only be at his moms for 3 years until going to collage.
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Ouch, if you can present evidence of abuse, he will either be adopted or sent with his father.
Also tell the judge "Huge ***** bluh bluh"
I'd suggest maybe secretly record it or something.
If the judge chooses to ignore the evidence, I'm sure there's a way to get him in trouble for obstruction of justice. After all, judges aren't invincible, they're just damn hard to convict.
Take your knife,And do what first comes to mind... >;3
Honestly, evidence speaks volumes. Hell, usually if the child speaks out the courts will tend towards the childs` wishes. Tell your friend to testify against his mother and testify for his father.
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Notice how it's the males, not the females, who automatically scream sexism the moment they don't get what they want. This forum sure is strange.
Anyway, if he has evidence of abuse, his mother will lose custody of him.
My friend considered this. Yes, this is that bad. And we contacted a teacher, and his dad. My friend just broke out in tears to tell us. He told a teacher. I have no clue what she said because is was none of my beewax to know. His dad knows about this but is figuring out what to do. And btw, the judge is female so it kinda makes sense she would like woman more than men. I asked my friend to get more info on the abuse, and he has not told me anything yet and........He stole 50 cents from me that i was going to use on a snack machine. I'm pissed off right now. "I will handle this."
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How about instead of praying, and instead of going on an online forum, you do something?
If you feel that your friend's life is in immediate danger and that there is a risk he could be killed soon, call the police. But only do this if it is an EMERGENCY.
YOU WIN A COOKIE DAMMIT.
lol, i'm only 12. My friend could be lying about his abuse from his mom, but that's not the point. How can his dad get custody instead of the mom. Yes, i know we will need proof, and my friend is working on it. He is at his dad's though- it's the weekend. :biggrin.gif:
Btw, His dad leaves on March 28th. REALLY SOON. AND REALLY URGENT.
Check out my youtube channel!
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Notice how it's the females, not the males, who automatically scream about us all being bad when it's only a few people. This planet sure is strange.
Anyway, call child support if he really is telling the truth, come forward and say that you will speak up for him at court or something.
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I imagine his friend is the same age. Or at least around about the same age.
Raise my dragons please!!
Good idea, and yes, my friend is really 11. We are in the 6th grade. My friend might've lied about his mom, because he does not make any effort when i told him your ideas. Maybe he wants to be with his mom. Dunno. Wait. HE HATES HIS MOM. So........I guess this thread is killed now.
Check out my youtube channel!
http://www.youtube.com/user/YellowChannelGaming?feature=watch