Some people may recall that quite a few months ago I asked for advice on how to get together with a certain girl I was interested in, and as of right now I am happily engaged with what I think is the nicest and sweetest girl I have ever met.
We have a healthy relationship, seeing each other often and always helping each other out, ect.
Recently though, my partner pointed out that there is a certain girl who is always eyeing me, trying to get close to me and fire up a conversations with me.
Initially I dismissed this thought, but the more days went on, the more I realized what my partner was saying was true, this specific girl always tried sitting next to me, chatting with me and I have sometimes I even saw her witth her friends tagging along me and listening to me playing guitar and singing with my friends in the music floor (we have a floor with band equipment in our school).
Now, this girl in particular isn't a bad person, it's just that I already am in a relationship which I am proud of that I have no intention of leaving, and I suspect she will try and confess to me soon enough.
I just don't know how to reject her though if ever I had to. I have also been hearing rumors from her friends that she likes me, which proves my partners theory.
I know this might seem lame, but this forum helped me get a partner and I just thought it would have also helped me reject a person in a nice manner :/ (I am extremely new to this whole dating game and Boys/girls relationship in High school).
I just don't know what to say without seeming mean or hurting her feelings, because she does look like a great person
Thanks in advance to anybody out there who helps out
But should I, like, comfort her? Stay with her while I tell her that we can't hook up? By experience I know these moments can be very heavy and impacting on sensitive people such as myself.
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War
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"Yet another stands before me... Then so be it. For the curse of life, is the curse of want. And so, you peer... Into the fog, in hope of answers."
Ok, so today, during math class (only class where I sit next to my partner) my teacher wanted to change seats up a bit for group work, and I ended up sitting in a group of 4 with the girl that has a crush on me.
towards the end of the lesson the "flirting intensified", I just played along even though I was careful to not fall into her flirt and such.
after asking me whether I liked somebody, I shyly said that I was already in a relationship with the girl sitting 2 tables away from us.
the girl which had a crush on me seemed evidently demoralised and didn't talk much for the rest of the lesson.
Later today, when school ended I was hanging out with my friends at the canteen, my girlfriend came up to me and said that the girl who had a crush on me was still into me and had started trying to convince my actual partner that she was better off with somebody else.
now, my girlfriend is completely cool about it, she is a bit preoccupied, but she seems pretty ok with it all, just that while I was walking her home the girl who had a crush gave me and my girlfriend really funny look, as if she hated my partner.
i seriously don't know what to do anymore, cuz this whole thing worries me and I'm scared she might actually start offending my current partner with her group of friends.
I was planning on having a talk with her as soon as things started escalating too quickly, but luckily that time hasnt come yet, but should I talk to her now or later when things get worse?
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While alive, you have a 100% chance of dying, so don't sweat it.
Roleplay characters:
Death (me)
War
Pestilence
Famine
"Yet another stands before me... Then so be it. For the curse of life, is the curse of want. And so, you peer... Into the fog, in hope of answers."
If you're going to just date her, and then break up and date another girl, then there's no point. If you have a genuine interest for her, then enroll in Chris Chans Date ED.
Follow the steps to be sucesfull in finding a person you like.
1: Walk up to her
2: Talk to her
3: Be friends with her
4: Be nice to her.
5: Ask her out. If you're not allowed to do this, then remain very close friends and suggest a relationship, but do this very subtly.
EDIT: Oh, you want a girl to stop liking you? Then just fake some scene where you hide in the bathroom and state that you're scared of her. She'll leave you forever I don't know if that would work but eh.
If you're going to just date her, and then break up and date another girl, then there's no point. If you have a genuine interest for her, then enroll in Chris Chans Date ED.
Follow the steps to be sucesfull in finding a person you like.
1: Walk up to her
2: Talk to her
3: Be friends with her
4: Be nice to her.
5: Ask her out. If you're not allowed to do this, then remain very close friends and suggest a relationship, but do this very subtly.
EDIT: Oh, you want a girl to stop liking you? Then just fake some scene where you hide in the bathroom and state that you're scared of her. She'll leave you forever I don't know if that would work but eh.
I won't even say how confusing that was.
Ok, here is how I would put it:
1.Go up to her.
2.Cuss her out in a language no one knows
3.Say you are not interested AT ALL!But, put her in the friend zone at the same time..
This shouldn't be much of an issue at all. Just tell her you have a girlfriend and cut your losses if you have to. Seems to me that you just like the drama, which is totally fine since a lot of people like the feeling of being pursued. Just don't string her around. Give her the straight talk and leave it at that.
Ok, here is how I would put it:
1.Go up to her.
2.Cuss her out in a language no one knows
3.Say you are not interested AT ALL!But, put her in the friend zone at the same time..
Yeah I screwed up a bit. Just tell her that you're not interested. In the nice fashion.
Young love is beatiful, right? If she keeps acting if she likes you, say you already have a girlfriend and you aren't interested in her as a girlfriend, but suggest becoming friends. Her crush is most likely temporary and if you give her no reason to like you, then she won't.
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those of you wondering why i don't have an active RP (so far none). i try. but whenever i get to the rules section of it my computer restarts. computer: i realise what your telling me and i give up.
You're dating the girl you like. You didn't pick that chick up by randomly bumping at her with a pickup truck.
Defend your choices, pal. The other girl is just a bystander. Tell her that.
If she does happen to be a real friend of yours that you don't want to lose, then you should talk about it. She's gonna be rocky at the beginning, being jealous all of the time and shooting you with messages on Facebook that'll make you feel uncomfortable, but she'll get through it eventually.
Better things to do? Dating is a big part of life for most people, and it usually starts around that age. Who cares if they date at 15? WHY does it matter?
Why are so many people suggesting that the OP friendzone the girl? I don't know if that is the best option, considering that the friendzone is so dreaded and often quite ambiguous.
It's the drama. As you can see, he is having problems. When I was younger, girls would have a boyfriend for a week and then weep over their breakup. Some people took this little "I think you're cute" dating farther than they should and paraded around showing their love, or some who bought necklaces for their partner after a month. While fifteen is much older than the other examples I brought up, you still have problems with people being immature.
Anyways, after what I've seen others say, tell her you aren't interested and to leave you alone. If she doesn't stop, tell teachers the problems so they won't put you together. If you have to, talk to the principle.
Ok, so I finally got things settled through the course of this week, I got a chance to talk to the girl who specifically had a crush on me after that my current partner stated that the girls friends started making fun of her.
I talked to her and she apologized for the way she was acting, saying it wasn't very mature of her.
Now, I still do think she has something going for me, because she still has that interest and curiosity in her eye's every time she looks at me, but I told her that I'm not interested and that there are many more men out there, no?
it seems that now she calmed down and finally stopped trying to get between me and my current partner.
So, I guess it's the first time I friendzone someone, and I surely didn't like it knowing how it feels like on the opposite end, but I am happy for how things turned out and I wanted to thank everyone here who helped me out
But there is one thing about this thread that caught my attention, a certain topic started rising, "dating at 15 is useless, don't you have better things to do?"
I don't know exactly how some of you are supposed to know what kind of relationship I have with my current girlfriend that caused me to reject another girl in the first place. How come you have to reach the point of trying to point out that mine is a "highschool love" that won't last?
I don't care if we're both 17, we do high school and all that other crap, I love her and she loves me, why isn't it possible for something to blossom between two students who still need to learn how life works? what if they wanted to learn about life together?
I don't want this post to degenerate into a cheesy "I rlly luv her, nothing will split us" followed by a selfie, but I just wanted to state that love is different for everyone, and me, being a rather romantic type of person, am appalled to the thought of having a simple 1-2 month relationship for the simple reason that it wasn't real love but only something similar to a crush.
And as stated previously by others, dating is a big part of life as well, not just work and study. I want to actually be happy with someone of the opposite gender and my current girlfriend is the best I could ever ask right now, she understands me, is smart, has my same interests and we generally conduct a very healthy relationship and I think she is actually worth my time considering how she invests part of her life into mine and vice versa.
thank you again for everyone who helped me out I didn’t really expect MC forum to help me out so much in my relationship life but thanks to all of you :3
So, I don't how to put this exactly.
Some people may recall that quite a few months ago I asked for advice on how to get together with a certain girl I was interested in, and as of right now I am happily engaged with what I think is the nicest and sweetest girl I have ever met.
We have a healthy relationship, seeing each other often and always helping each other out, ect.
Recently though, my partner pointed out that there is a certain girl who is always eyeing me, trying to get close to me and fire up a conversations with me.
Initially I dismissed this thought, but the more days went on, the more I realized what my partner was saying was true, this specific girl always tried sitting next to me, chatting with me and I have sometimes I even saw her witth her friends tagging along me and listening to me playing guitar and singing with my friends in the music floor (we have a floor with band equipment in our school).
Now, this girl in particular isn't a bad person, it's just that I already am in a relationship which I am proud of that I have no intention of leaving, and I suspect she will try and confess to me soon enough.
I just don't know how to reject her though if ever I had to. I have also been hearing rumors from her friends that she likes me, which proves my partners theory.
I know this might seem lame, but this forum helped me get a partner and I just thought it would have also helped me reject a person in a nice manner :/ (I am extremely new to this whole dating game and Boys/girls relationship in High school).
I just don't know what to say without seeming mean or hurting her feelings, because she does look like a great person
Thanks in advance to anybody out there who helps out
Roleplay characters:
Death (me)
War
Pestilence
Famine
But should I, like, comfort her? Stay with her while I tell her that we can't hook up? By experience I know these moments can be very heavy and impacting on sensitive people such as myself.
Roleplay characters:
Death (me)
War
Pestilence
Famine
Harems, I swear.
Just say that you are already in a commited relationship and have no intention in leaving. Basically friendzone her.
Ok, so today, during math class (only class where I sit next to my partner) my teacher wanted to change seats up a bit for group work, and I ended up sitting in a group of 4 with the girl that has a crush on me.
towards the end of the lesson the "flirting intensified", I just played along even though I was careful to not fall into her flirt and such.
after asking me whether I liked somebody, I shyly said that I was already in a relationship with the girl sitting 2 tables away from us.
the girl which had a crush on me seemed evidently demoralised and didn't talk much for the rest of the lesson.
Later today, when school ended I was hanging out with my friends at the canteen, my girlfriend came up to me and said that the girl who had a crush on me was still into me and had started trying to convince my actual partner that she was better off with somebody else.
now, my girlfriend is completely cool about it, she is a bit preoccupied, but she seems pretty ok with it all, just that while I was walking her home the girl who had a crush gave me and my girlfriend really funny look, as if she hated my partner.
i seriously don't know what to do anymore, cuz this whole thing worries me and I'm scared she might actually start offending my current partner with her group of friends.
I was planning on having a talk with her as soon as things started escalating too quickly, but luckily that time hasnt come yet, but should I talk to her now or later when things get worse?
Roleplay characters:
Death (me)
War
Pestilence
Famine
later i think she may just drop it tho just wait and see
If you're going to just date her, and then break up and date another girl, then there's no point. If you have a genuine interest for her,
then enroll in Chris Chans Date ED.Follow the steps to be sucesfull in finding a person you like.
1: Walk up to her
2: Talk to her
3: Be friends with her
4: Be nice to her.
5: Ask her out. If you're not allowed to do this, then remain very close friends and suggest a relationship, but do this very subtly.
EDIT: Oh, you want a girl to stop liking you? Then just fake some scene where you hide in the bathroom and state that you're scared of her. She'll leave you forever I don't know if that would work but eh.
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I won't even say how confusing that was.
Ok, here is how I would put it:
1.Go up to her.
2.Cuss her out in a language no one knows
3.Say you are not interested AT ALL!But, put her in the friend zone at the same time..
~Muffet
This shouldn't be much of an issue at all. Just tell her you have a girlfriend and cut your losses if you have to. Seems to me that you just like the drama, which is totally fine since a lot of people like the feeling of being pursued. Just don't string her around. Give her the straight talk and leave it at that.
Yeah I screwed up a bit. Just tell her that you're not interested. In the nice fashion.
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Young love is beatiful, right? If she keeps acting if she likes you, say you already have a girlfriend and you aren't interested in her as a girlfriend, but suggest becoming friends. Her crush is most likely temporary and if you give her no reason to like you, then she won't.
I hope not.
say that you wouldn't go out with her now even if you WERE single because she tried to make you break up.
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That heart would hurt.The majority of us say you should put her in friend zone, ok??
~Muffet
Why do people even date at 15? Don't people have better things to do.
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Nah.They'd rather show off their hot m8's then do better things.
~Muffet
Dude, I don't want to sound harsh here but...
You're dating the girl you like. You didn't pick that chick up by randomly bumping at her with a pickup truck.
Defend your choices, pal. The other girl is just a bystander. Tell her that.
If she does happen to be a real friend of yours that you don't want to lose, then you should talk about it. She's gonna be rocky at the beginning, being jealous all of the time and shooting you with messages on Facebook that'll make you feel uncomfortable, but she'll get through it eventually.
Jealousy is like a cheeseburger.Like you said, it's salty, and there can be all the toppings that you want.
Even..donuts..
~Muffet
It's the drama. As you can see, he is having problems. When I was younger, girls would have a boyfriend for a week and then weep over their breakup. Some people took this little "I think you're cute" dating farther than they should and paraded around showing their love, or some who bought necklaces for their partner after a month. While fifteen is much older than the other examples I brought up, you still have problems with people being immature.
Anyways, after what I've seen others say, tell her you aren't interested and to leave you alone. If she doesn't stop, tell teachers the problems so they won't put you together. If you have to, talk to the principle.
Ok, so I finally got things settled through the course of this week, I got a chance to talk to the girl who specifically had a crush on me after that my current partner stated that the girls friends started making fun of her.
I talked to her and she apologized for the way she was acting, saying it wasn't very mature of her.
Now, I still do think she has something going for me, because she still has that interest and curiosity in her eye's every time she looks at me, but I told her that I'm not interested and that there are many more men out there, no?
it seems that now she calmed down and finally stopped trying to get between me and my current partner.
So, I guess it's the first time I friendzone someone, and I surely didn't like it knowing how it feels like on the opposite end, but I am happy for how things turned out and I wanted to thank everyone here who helped me out
But there is one thing about this thread that caught my attention, a certain topic started rising, "dating at 15 is useless, don't you have better things to do?"
I don't know exactly how some of you are supposed to know what kind of relationship I have with my current girlfriend that caused me to reject another girl in the first place. How come you have to reach the point of trying to point out that mine is a "highschool love" that won't last?
I don't care if we're both 17, we do high school and all that other crap, I love her and she loves me, why isn't it possible for something to blossom between two students who still need to learn how life works? what if they wanted to learn about life together?
I don't want this post to degenerate into a cheesy "I rlly luv her, nothing will split us" followed by a selfie, but I just wanted to state that love is different for everyone, and me, being a rather romantic type of person, am appalled to the thought of having a simple 1-2 month relationship for the simple reason that it wasn't real love but only something similar to a crush.
And as stated previously by others, dating is a big part of life as well, not just work and study. I want to actually be happy with someone of the opposite gender and my current girlfriend is the best I could ever ask right now, she understands me, is smart, has my same interests and we generally conduct a very healthy relationship and I think she is actually worth my time considering how she invests part of her life into mine and vice versa.
thank you again for everyone who helped me out I didn’t really expect MC forum to help me out so much in my relationship life but thanks to all of you :3
Roleplay characters:
Death (me)
War
Pestilence
Famine