I am currently not in any realm, leaving my last after a few days due to being attacked and stolen from within 3 days of joining. And a previous one I'd been on kept cheating and used/changed my personal (not communal) build without my permission. I would still love to be a part of a good honest realm though, and I do love communal activities and gaming. I like building things and I usually provide a gathering service for those who do not have the time to gather materials for themselves. As a way to help earn diamonds besides shops.