Why does finding a realm have to be such a struggle? I'm 24 chill and been playing Minecraft for quite a few years on and off. I like building and digging and doing everything. I like to have my own building space with my own land. I am a team player though and will go string mining to get diamonds for the group. Just send me a message on Xbox my ign is darthzilla13. Don't be a little kid please.
Finding a good realm is hard because it requires acutal money to keep the lights on. There is no shortage of good posts for realms but many will be lost thoughts in 45 days from when I hit the "post reply" button below.
We're an older group of players, go by the name of CommCraft and while you are younger than a vast majority of people on our server, you're "why is finding a realm so hard" is what provoked me to start my own realm almost a year ago. Perhaps you might enjoy the company of others that are a bit older than you? You could learn from us and could learn from you. We even have another realm setup for the Protectors of our Realm who have children that also play Minecraft. That's called CommCraft Junior.
IDK how you'd feel about all that but if the moment presents itself, this was the last post we put on MCF for the realm.
Hey! I'm Ryker, 15, Female. My Discord is Ryker#5586. I have a realm that a bunch of friends and I play on if you're interested in some chill building. I'm on PC, though, so this would only work if you have Java edition.