***Please do not respond to my post until you have read it all. Please do not use my thread to advertise your server/realm. Thank you.
Hi! My name is Sarah, I'm 33 years old and I've been playing Minecraft for over a year now. I'm looking for other mature (age 25+) women to play Minecraft with. I have both java and bedrock versions of the game. I would like to start a multiplayer game and once I find a good group of ladies, eventually start a server. I want to play a vanilla (un-modded), easy, mostly survival game. I don't want to have flying, creative inventory, or mega builds (larger than a woodland mansion). I would like to use discord for voice chat while playing.
When playing Minecraft, I enjoy farming, taming animals and building trading villages. I'm not into pvp, pranking, or combat (will probably only fight the ender dragon once to access end cities and may not ever fight the wither). Sometimes I'd like to put the game into peaceful to do specific things (like exploring the nether or fighting the ender dragon).
I'm looking for mature, drama-free women who will be kind, considerate and respectful of everyone else. My husband and I already have a couple of trusted friends who are interested in joining our game, I'm just hoping to find some more female players. Looking forward to making new friends! =)
Update 3/31:
We have now been playing on a bedrock multiplayer world for over a month. Our plan is to transition to a java server after Update Aquatic is released. We have created an Application and established some Community Guidelines:
1. No griefing, stealing, cheating (duping or addons), trespassing
2. No pvp or pranking unless previously agreed on by all parties and pvp only in a designated area
3. Be respectful: no drama, no profanity, no religious/political debate, no bigotry or verbal attacks of any kind
4. Be considerate of the environment: repair creeper holes, don't leave floating trees, no unsightly builds like dirt towers
5. No mega builds or large redstone devices (simple mob farms are permitted, complex storage systems are not)
6. The closest of each generated structure (mansion, fortress) and rare biome (mushroom island, ice spikes) will be reserved as community space
7. Mature adults only (age 25+)
If you are a mature and respectful female player age 25 or over, respond here or send me a PM for the Application link. By submitting an application, you are agreeing to follow the guidelines listed above.
Anya, I appreciate your honesty about your age. Yes, I am 100% on the over age 25. I've just had too many negative experiences with immature players. I hope you find some other friends to play with.
As I stated in my post, I am specifically looking for female players that are age 25 or over. To clarify, I do not currently have a realm or server. I am simply trying to connect with other mature women in a multiplayer world to get to know them and their play style. We currently have a small group of four players on a bedrock multiplayer world. If there is enough interest, after Update Aquatic is released, I am hoping to start a java server.
I am not looking to join an existing server/realm unless (1) it is led by a woman, (2) has only players age 25 or over, (3) has mostly (at least 75%) female players, and (4) meets all of my play style preferences: easy/peaceful, survival, vanilla etc. If you run a server/realm that you think is a good fit for me, please send me a private message and specifically address all of these things in your response.
Again, if you are male or under age 25, you are not the player I am looking for so please don't respond to my post. Thank you.
Hi there, I'm Rose I'll will be turning 20 this year. I apologise for posting but I'm really interested because it'll just be matured females and not the young ones. Just like you I had many negative experiences with immature players and it causes too much drama that I can't be bothered with. I don't know if you'll still accept me due to the age limit but I'll just go ahead and put more info about myself.
I've played Minecraft for 4-5 years now as I didn't go to school and was working during my mid-teens so i had a lot of free time at home. I'm an outgoing person, easy to talk to and get along with although I'm an introvert. I just like making friends and having fun without worrying about any drama happening. I'm experienced with servers as I've made some of my own so I can make a server for you when you're in need of one.
I've met a lot of different types of personalities as I've been recording/streaming minecraft since last year. People come and go anytime they want so I can't comment anything about that. But I'm looking for female players to play mini-games, modded, survival and others for recording. Even if I'm not accepted for this server, if you're interested in recording with me do let me know.
Rose, thank you for being honest about your age. As I have already stated multiple times, I am only interested in playing with mature adults who are age 25 or over. Also, as I said, I am looking for friends to play vanilla (not modded). I hope you find some other friends to play with.
Please do not respond to my post until you have read all of it, and please only respond if you are female, at least 25 and want to play easy, survival, vanilla. Thank you.
Hi I’m jennifer age 29 and I’m also looking for another female player! I have been playing sky factory 3 to learn most of the basics of Minecraft. I have only been playing pc Minecraft for about 6 months mainly modded though. Which I’m sure vanilla would be fine. Shoot me a message if you’d like to play together! Oh and I’m on my boyfriends account by the way! Discord would also be on my boyfriends account but you’d clearly be able to hear that I’m a girl lol
Hey Jennifer, thanks for responding! It's great to hear from another mature woman looking for Minecraft friends. I will respond to your private message with more info including my discord name. Looking forward to having you join our community! =)
Just thought I'd share an update on the progress our group has made in our multiplayer world over the last few weeks. We have built a small settlement at spawn. New players spawn in a chamber below the starter house at 0,0 to read the guidelines and receive starter supplies. We also have a Nether hub with teleports, enchantment area, skeleton farm and community farms. Our teleports provide access to all major biomes and most generated structures (woodland mansion, temples, etc). We have safe tunnels to the Nether Fortress (including blaze farm), Jungle (for ocelots), Tiaga (for wolves) and Mushroom Island (for mooshrooms). We have not killed the ender dragon yet and there is still plenty left to explore.
If you are a mature and respectful female player age 25 or over, we would love to have you join our growing community! =)
Just thought I'd share an update on the progress our group has made in our multiplayer world over the last few weeks. We have built a small settlement at spawn. New players spawn in a chamber below the starter house at 0,0 to read the guidelines and receive starter supplies. We also have a Nether hub with teleports, enchantment area, skeleton farm and community farms. Our teleports provide access to all major biomes and most generated structures (woodland mansion, temples, etc). We have safe tunnels to the Nether Fortress (including blaze farm), Jungle (for ocelots), Tiaga (for wolves) and Mushroom Island (for mooshrooms). We have not killed the ender dragon yet and there is still plenty left to explore.
If you are a mature and respectful female player age 25 or over, we would love to have you join our growing community! =)
Hey Sarah, I'm Fay, 31 and Female. I've been playing Minecraft since around the "Last Alpha/First Beta" version when it was largely more mature people playing. I joined a small server to begin with and then made my own. During that time I met a small group of people that I played with and we build villages together etc. but unfortunately we all went our own ways to different games and I have been unable to recapture a similar experience in MC since.
I haven't had people to play Minecraft with regularly since then and it's been kind of lonely to play MC. I've tried to join various servers but they all seem to be either mega hubs where you can't really get to know anyone, they're usually full of young kids which is not the experience I'm looking for, or there are already established friend groups and it is hard to get a foot in the door. I also like the idea of working as a group on making a village/town and other projects that really makes it feel like you live in a community.
I recently started to try to make my own semi-survival server again (Survival with a few mods to prevent griefing etc.) but I've been feeling so demotivated working on it by myself with how much work it is to initially set up and not knowing if I could find like-minded people etc. Then I read your post, your server is exactly what I've been looking for and I would love to join it if you don't mind? Feel free to PM me if you have any questions about me etc.
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Hi Fay, thank you for responding to my post! You seem like an ideal fit for our community. I will send you a private message with more info and my discord name. Looking forward to playing with you soon! =)
Hi all, my name is Will and I'm Sarah (StarDreamer)'s husband. We are building a nice community and have some great builds in the spawn area. I built a community skeleton farm at spawn. I designed it with some of the possible water mechanic changes (coming in Update Aquatic) in mind. Due to this there are two separate areas for the farm.
One is the kill chamber where the skeletons should only take one or two hits to kill. In there we have:
an auto-smelter with extra bows for fuel,
an auto lava disposal system for leather armor or other mostly useless items,
a stack of double chests for drop sorting,
an anvil for combining enchanted bow drops,
finally an on/off switch for the spawner farm.
Upstairs from that is the AFK area that is right outside the spawner room. Complete with a fishing pond, with a community fishing rod to use for killing time waiting for skeletons to pile up in the drop chute in the kill chamber. I may add a safe player drop to quickly get down to the kill chamber, but for now we are just using the stairs.
We've been working on our spawn settlement and have now added villager trading and community storage. Also pictured is our Nether Hub and our Blaze farm in the Fortress. We have created an Application and established some Community Guidelines:
1. No griefing, stealing, cheating (duping or addons), trespassing
2. No pvp or pranking unless previously agreed on by all parties and pvp only in a designated area
3. Be respectful: no drama, no profanity, no religious/political debate, no bigotry or verbal attacks of any kind
4. Be considerate of the environment: repair creeper holes, don't leave floating trees, no unsightly builds like dirt towers
5. No mega builds or large redstone devices (simple mob farms are permitted, complex storage systems are not)
6. The closest of each generated structure (mansion, fortress) and rare biome (mushroom island, ice spikes) will be reserved as community space
7. Mature adults only (age 25+)
If you are a mature and respectful female player age 25 or over, respond here or send me a PM for the Application link. By submitting an application, you are agreeing to follow the guidelines listed above.
Our community has been making progress in our multiplayer world. We just defeated the ender dragon for the first time today and we have discovered the first end city! The closest of each generated structure is reserved as community space. The first player to discover the structure can loot the treasure but not harvest all of the blocks. The admins periodically restock community structures such as the mansion and end cities with illagers and shulkers as well as treasure in the chests (excluding rare items like the dragon head and elytra).
If you are a mature and respectful female player age 25 or over, we welcome you to send an application to join our growing community!
Hi Gypsylpsum, thank you for responding! You sound like a fine fit for our community. I will send you a private message with more info and my discord name. Looking forward to connecting with you soon! =)
Hey Zhoana, thanks for responding! I received your application, and you seem like a great fit for our community. I will send you a private message with more info. Looking forward to chatting with you soon! =)
I thought I should mention there is a person on Twitter and YouTube known as MadEnder916. He is developing working systems for Bedrock which may be useful to your server. I actually found him looking for a One Player Sleeping solution. Glance though his YT channel to see if he has anything of interest to you. He has encountered a number of Bedrock "server problems" and solved them. MadEnder916 understands most people playing Bedrock just want to play Survival, but every so often you encounter flaws make things kinda nutz. You want a solution that isn't an absolute cheat, but does make game play more sane.
I am also available on Twitter if I can help or commiserate. I don't (and I'm not) advertising my server. I just figure as we can get heads together solving common problems, we can all offer a better place for friends and family to play.
Im a 36 Year old guy and I play casual but id love to play and just have my own island or underwater home if you need to fill a spot, Im not big on disord and just like to do my own thing in game or chat in game, but if you need one im down
Hi, I'm Melinda, I'm 35 and I'd very much like to meet some other women to play minecraft with.
Hi Melinda, thank you for responding to my post! I will send you a private message with more info and my discord name. Looking forward to connecting with you soon! =)
Hello! My name is Marcela, I'm 35, and I would love to connect with you guys. I have been playing for over a year now and my playing style is just as you described. I have been looking for other women to play with and never knew where to start until I stumbled on this forum. I hope you guys are still playing! If so, please let me know!
***Please do not respond to my post until you have read it all. Please do not use my thread to advertise your server/realm. Thank you.
Hi! My name is Sarah, I'm 33 years old and I've been playing Minecraft for over a year now. I'm looking for other mature (age 25+) women to play Minecraft with. I have both java and bedrock versions of the game. I would like to start a multiplayer game and once I find a good group of ladies, eventually start a server. I want to play a vanilla (un-modded), easy, mostly survival game. I don't want to have flying, creative inventory, or mega builds (larger than a woodland mansion). I would like to use discord for voice chat while playing.
When playing Minecraft, I enjoy farming, taming animals and building trading villages. I'm not into pvp, pranking, or combat (will probably only fight the ender dragon once to access end cities and may not ever fight the wither). Sometimes I'd like to put the game into peaceful to do specific things (like exploring the nether or fighting the ender dragon).
I'm looking for mature, drama-free women who will be kind, considerate and respectful of everyone else. My husband and I already have a couple of trusted friends who are interested in joining our game, I'm just hoping to find some more female players. Looking forward to making new friends! =)
Update 3/31:
We have now been playing on a bedrock multiplayer world for over a month. Our plan is to transition to a java server after Update Aquatic is released. We have created an Application and established some Community Guidelines:
1. No griefing, stealing, cheating (duping or addons), trespassing
2. No pvp or pranking unless previously agreed on by all parties and pvp only in a designated area
3. Be respectful: no drama, no profanity, no religious/political debate, no bigotry or verbal attacks of any kind
4. Be considerate of the environment: repair creeper holes, don't leave floating trees, no unsightly builds like dirt towers
5. No mega builds or large redstone devices (simple mob farms are permitted, complex storage systems are not)
6. The closest of each generated structure (mansion, fortress) and rare biome (mushroom island, ice spikes) will be reserved as community space
7. Mature adults only (age 25+)
If you are a mature and respectful female player age 25 or over, respond here or send me a PM for the Application link. By submitting an application, you are agreeing to follow the guidelines listed above.
Anya, I appreciate your honesty about your age. Yes, I am 100% on the over age 25. I've just had too many negative experiences with immature players. I hope you find some other friends to play with.
As I stated in my post, I am specifically looking for female players that are age 25 or over. To clarify, I do not currently have a realm or server. I am simply trying to connect with other mature women in a multiplayer world to get to know them and their play style. We currently have a small group of four players on a bedrock multiplayer world. If there is enough interest, after Update Aquatic is released, I am hoping to start a java server.
I am not looking to join an existing server/realm unless (1) it is led by a woman, (2) has only players age 25 or over, (3) has mostly (at least 75%) female players, and (4) meets all of my play style preferences: easy/peaceful, survival, vanilla etc. If you run a server/realm that you think is a good fit for me, please send me a private message and specifically address all of these things in your response.
Again, if you are male or under age 25, you are not the player I am looking for so please don't respond to my post. Thank you.
Hi there, I'm Rose I'll will be turning 20 this year. I apologise for posting but I'm really interested because it'll just be matured females and not the young ones. Just like you I had many negative experiences with immature players and it causes too much drama that I can't be bothered with. I don't know if you'll still accept me due to the age limit but I'll just go ahead and put more info about myself.
I've played Minecraft for 4-5 years now as I didn't go to school and was working during my mid-teens so i had a lot of free time at home. I'm an outgoing person, easy to talk to and get along with although I'm an introvert. I just like making friends and having fun without worrying about any drama happening. I'm experienced with servers as I've made some of my own so I can make a server for you when you're in need of one.
I've met a lot of different types of personalities as I've been recording/streaming minecraft since last year. People come and go anytime they want so I can't comment anything about that. But I'm looking for female players to play mini-games, modded, survival and others for recording. Even if I'm not accepted for this server, if you're interested in recording with me do let me know.
Thank you and have a nice day
Rose, thank you for being honest about your age. As I have already stated multiple times, I am only interested in playing with mature adults who are age 25 or over. Also, as I said, I am looking for friends to play vanilla (not modded). I hope you find some other friends to play with.
Please do not respond to my post until you have read all of it, and please only respond if you are female, at least 25 and want to play easy, survival, vanilla. Thank you.
Hi I’m jennifer age 29 and I’m also looking for another female player! I have been playing sky factory 3 to learn most of the basics of Minecraft. I have only been playing pc Minecraft for about 6 months mainly modded though. Which I’m sure vanilla would be fine. Shoot me a message if you’d like to play together! Oh and I’m on my boyfriends account by the way! Discord would also be on my boyfriends account but you’d clearly be able to hear that I’m a girl lol
Hey Jennifer, thanks for responding! It's great to hear from another mature woman looking for Minecraft friends. I will respond to your private message with more info including my discord name. Looking forward to having you join our community! =)
Just thought I'd share an update on the progress our group has made in our multiplayer world over the last few weeks. We have built a small settlement at spawn. New players spawn in a chamber below the starter house at 0,0 to read the guidelines and receive starter supplies. We also have a Nether hub with teleports, enchantment area, skeleton farm and community farms. Our teleports provide access to all major biomes and most generated structures (woodland mansion, temples, etc). We have safe tunnels to the Nether Fortress (including blaze farm), Jungle (for ocelots), Tiaga (for wolves) and Mushroom Island (for mooshrooms). We have not killed the ender dragon yet and there is still plenty left to explore.
If you are a mature and respectful female player age 25 or over, we would love to have you join our growing community! =)
Hey Sarah, I'm Fay, 31 and Female. I've been playing Minecraft since around the "Last Alpha/First Beta" version when it was largely more mature people playing. I joined a small server to begin with and then made my own. During that time I met a small group of people that I played with and we build villages together etc. but unfortunately we all went our own ways to different games and I have been unable to recapture a similar experience in MC since.
I haven't had people to play Minecraft with regularly since then and it's been kind of lonely to play MC. I've tried to join various servers but they all seem to be either mega hubs where you can't really get to know anyone, they're usually full of young kids which is not the experience I'm looking for, or there are already established friend groups and it is hard to get a foot in the door. I also like the idea of working as a group on making a village/town and other projects that really makes it feel like you live in a community.
I recently started to try to make my own semi-survival server again (Survival with a few mods to prevent griefing etc.) but I've been feeling so demotivated working on it by myself with how much work it is to initially set up and not knowing if I could find like-minded people etc. Then I read your post, your server is exactly what I've been looking for and I would love to join it if you don't mind? Feel free to PM me if you have any questions about me etc.
— You should seek the Journey. It's as a fine tapestry. Complex beyond comprehension —
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Hi Fay, thank you for responding to my post! You seem like an ideal fit for our community. I will send you a private message with more info and my discord name. Looking forward to playing with you soon! =)
Hi all, my name is Will and I'm Sarah (StarDreamer)'s husband. We are building a nice community and have some great builds in the spawn area. I built a community skeleton farm at spawn. I designed it with some of the possible water mechanic changes (coming in Update Aquatic) in mind. Due to this there are two separate areas for the farm.
One is the kill chamber where the skeletons should only take one or two hits to kill. In there we have:
Upstairs from that is the AFK area that is right outside the spawner room. Complete with a fishing pond, with a community fishing rod to use for killing time waiting for skeletons to pile up in the drop chute in the kill chamber. I may add a safe player drop to quickly get down to the kill chamber, but for now we are just using the stairs.
We've been working on our spawn settlement and have now added villager trading and community storage. Also pictured is our Nether Hub and our Blaze farm in the Fortress. We have created an Application and established some Community Guidelines:
1. No griefing, stealing, cheating (duping or addons), trespassing
2. No pvp or pranking unless previously agreed on by all parties and pvp only in a designated area
3. Be respectful: no drama, no profanity, no religious/political debate, no bigotry or verbal attacks of any kind
4. Be considerate of the environment: repair creeper holes, don't leave floating trees, no unsightly builds like dirt towers
5. No mega builds or large redstone devices (simple mob farms are permitted, complex storage systems are not)
6. The closest of each generated structure (mansion, fortress) and rare biome (mushroom island, ice spikes) will be reserved as community space
7. Mature adults only (age 25+)
If you are a mature and respectful female player age 25 or over, respond here or send me a PM for the Application link. By submitting an application, you are agreeing to follow the guidelines listed above.
Our community has been making progress in our multiplayer world. We just defeated the ender dragon for the first time today and we have discovered the first end city! The closest of each generated structure is reserved as community space. The first player to discover the structure can loot the treasure but not harvest all of the blocks. The admins periodically restock community structures such as the mansion and end cities with illagers and shulkers as well as treasure in the chests (excluding rare items like the dragon head and elytra).
If you are a mature and respectful female player age 25 or over, we welcome you to send an application to join our growing community!
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Hi Gypsylpsum, thank you for responding! You sound like a fine fit for our community. I will send you a private message with more info and my discord name. Looking forward to connecting with you soon! =)
Hey Zhoana, thanks for responding! I received your application, and you seem like a great fit for our community. I will send you a private message with more info. Looking forward to chatting with you soon! =)
I thought I should mention there is a person on Twitter and YouTube known as MadEnder916. He is developing working systems for Bedrock which may be useful to your server. I actually found him looking for a One Player Sleeping solution. Glance though his YT channel to see if he has anything of interest to you. He has encountered a number of Bedrock "server problems" and solved them. MadEnder916 understands most people playing Bedrock just want to play Survival, but every so often you encounter flaws make things kinda nutz. You want a solution that isn't an absolute cheat, but does make game play more sane.
I am also available on Twitter if I can help or commiserate. I don't (and I'm not) advertising my server. I just figure as we can get heads together solving common problems, we can all offer a better place for friends and family to play.
Hi, I'm Melinda, I'm 35 and I'd very much like to meet some other women to play minecraft with.
Im a 36 Year old guy and I play casual but id love to play and just have my own island or underwater home if you need to fill a spot, Im not big on disord and just like to do my own thing in game or chat in game, but if you need one im down
Hi Melinda, thank you for responding to my post! I will send you a private message with more info and my discord name. Looking forward to connecting with you soon! =)
Hello! My name is Marcela, I'm 35, and I would love to connect with you guys. I have been playing for over a year now and my playing style is just as you described. I have been looking for other women to play with and never knew where to start until I stumbled on this forum. I hope you guys are still playing! If so, please let me know!