Get a server on any website, Virtualgladiator even have a free option (won't be enough really), just google it and you will find a lot of options around, all better than realms.
Obviously if you don't know how to and don't want to spend any time learning how to host a server go for realms, but you will have zero control over griefing and stealing, plus it's laggy.
can anyone suggest which realms should i buy or creat a server?(my computer can't create a server)
Get a server on any website, Virtualgladiator even have a free option (won't be enough really), just google it and you will find a lot of options around, all better than realms.
Obviously if you don't know how to and don't want to spend any time learning how to host a server go for realms, but you will have zero control over griefing and stealing, plus it's laggy.