Server IP 126.96.36.199
Server Port 19132
(Non console clients will not log in successfully)
You will need to use a proxy like phantom (https://github.com/jhead/phantom) or MC LAN Proxy (https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.luzenna.mineproxydroid&hl=en)
How to not appear in the Locator Map of other players? Well, simple, just wear a pumpkin or any mob head. The pumpkin blur has been removed via a resource pack.
Here a tutorial on how to use an Android phone as proxy to access external servers, including the 1010 (IP above):