Server IP 188.8.131.52
Server Port 19132
(Non console clients will not log in successfully)
You will need to use a proxy like phantom (https://github.com/jhead/phantom) or MC LAN Proxy (https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.luzenna.mineproxydroid&hl=en)
Feel free to contact me asking for help on how to join or install the proxy.
How to not appear in the Locator Map of other players? Well, simple, just wear a pumpkin or any mob head. The pumpkin blur has been removed via a resource pack.
Here a tutorial on how to use an Android phone as proxy to access external servers, including the 1010 (IP above):
And here how to use phantom in a desktop PC to proxy the console to any cloud server, it is a little outdated but it is a good approximation