So... my minecraft modded server crashes claiming its due to a java.io.IOExeption and then it says its a ticking screen problem... thingy. But i know its not because of mods because i have NO mods in my serer to begin with. My friend can connect with my ngrok ip i gave him but I CANT. its not my render distance i KNOW that. and its not that the versions are different im pretty sure!
Also id like to mention that i have one server that i CAN play on but the other one (the one i was referring to in the first post) is almost exactly the same yet i CANT connect because of the issue i briefly mentioned up there. so that might mean that its a server side problem but i cant figure out a difference between those two servers besides that i cant connect to one of them.