1.19.4
Java
Blocks
SSP
Realism
Multiplayer
Biomes
SMP
I use a connected textures mod to make the glass (similar to this one, I can no longer find the exact link) more transparent, and I highly recommend you do the same, as well as use whatever shaders your system will allow. Chocapic13 is the best for integrated GPU's and BSL is my favorite, but they all have their own advantages and disadvantages. I've used the Complementary and Complementary Reimagined shader packs a lot recently. There are lots of optimizations available within these packs, one can make the whole map covered in frost and another reveals the blocks that mobs can spawn on while you hold a spider eye, which is quite useful. The zoom function from Optifine is essential for me, as a photographer I struggle for the few weeks after an update not being able to crop screenshots. I use the zoom and the FOV setting interchangeably to get my images.
Much of what I build is quickly rearranged or destroyed and I often will wander and get distracted. I find that servers are eclectic and people don't want to destroy each other's buildings, which leads to a lack of cohesion in the architecture. I very much enjoy being able toggle to Peaceful mode. There is no wrong way to play this game, and the rules I've made for myself are too many to list here, but I will eventually make a video explaining why I do certain things, and why I silently rage to myself when I see people doing other things. Feel free to message me or send a link to your maps and I'll be sure to drop in and give you some feedback. I have not created a server with it, but feel free to do so and expand in whatever way you wish, just please give me credit for the work done before you got started.