I feel even my friends hate me secretly but don't really show it, I think only one person doesn't really hate me who isn't family.
by the way I'm in the ideal wight for my age and I'm totally healthy and i don't look bad, why does everybody hate me, any tips to get someone to like me? (as a friend)
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hi m8 I'm watching u! just like a other 7 billion people on this earth!
To be honest, hate is a rather strong word. There's a difference between people hating you, and people just disliking you. By the way, you didn't really go into that much detail. Why do you feel your friends and family hate you in the first place? Like, what makes you think that's the case. For all you know, it could be all in your head, and you're just being paranoid.
The fact that you didn't put your age on your profile tells me you're about 12.
At that age, EVERYBODY feels insecure about themselves, thinking everyone hates them. It's completely natural to be feeling this way, but you cannot let it rule your life or make decisions for you.
Same here, but I would also like to add that sometimes people tend to criticize others a lot. It's important to listen to their feedback as much as you can.
It might take a while, but I can assure you that by the time you've "grown up", you will realize why constructive criticism can be a good thing.
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If all of us give a little bit of something to a good cause, we can help to make that cause happen.
It's just insecurity. If Pluviae is correct and you are 12 (or within that age range) then you're at the age where you will most likely start realising who your real friends are. As an example, when I was around this age, a "friend" who I thought liked me turned out to secretly hate me and only be near me because of my other friends. Him and others slowly drifted away, and in your case as well, the people that stay with you will prove that they're your friends one way or another, you just need to give it time.
Gotten this before. Maybe you've said something and it came out wrong and they didn't take it the right way? I find I get the feeling you've felt when this happens. Don't worry, it isn't a long term thing. It'll right itself.
Actually it'd more likely make you asocial. Anti-social is being hostile or harmful to society, while asocial is rejecting or lacking the ability for social interaction.
I may or may not have just copied that from Yahoo Answers, but still.
Do not be a spaz. No one likes a spaz. For example, in my third grade class, we had this one kid named Joseph, sure, he was funny at times, but people generally shunned him from how much of a spaz he was.
by the way I'm in the ideal wight for my age and I'm totally healthy and i don't look bad, why does everybody hate me, any tips to get someone to like me? (as a friend)
hi m8 I'm watching u! just like a other 7 billion people on this earth!
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At that age, EVERYBODY feels insecure about themselves, thinking everyone hates them. It's completely natural to be feeling this way, but you cannot let it rule your life or make decisions for you.
Same here, but I would also like to add that sometimes people tend to criticize others a lot. It's important to listen to their feedback as much as you can.
It might take a while, but I can assure you that by the time you've "grown up", you will realize why constructive criticism can be a good thing.
If all of us give a little bit of something to a good cause, we can help to make that cause happen.
I am pretty sure that more people like you than you are led to believe.
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Like others have said, it sounds like insecurity. Don't look too far into people's interactions with you and just take things as they are.
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