So my friend is making this TF2 ban plugin thing called "BubbleBan" and it lets anyone kick or ban anyone else without admin needed. I think this is a horrible idea, and told him how it could be easily abused. Of course, suddenly he's all like "agree that it's good or we can't be friends" and he has all my other friends ganging up on me. I seriously cannot comprehend what drove him to this. Who's right in this situation? (Note this is serious, they're my friends in real life and I don't want to lose them.)
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It depends on how important your friends are to you. It seems like such a stupid thing for them to get worked up about... and for the record, I agree with you, that sounds like a very idiotic plugin. However, if you really want to keep your friends, then it's probably best just to put it aside and let them have their way. It's only a video game, after all.
It depends on how important your friends are to you. It seems like such a stupid thing for them to get worked up about... and for the record, I agree with you, that sounds like a very idiotic plugin. However, if you really want to keep your friends, then it's probably best just to put it aside and let them have their way. It's only a video game, after all.
To be honest, they are my ONLY friends, so I guess I will have to agree with them.
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I don't feel like putting anything witty here, sorry.
So my friend is making this TF2 ban plugin thing called "BubbleBan" and it lets anyone kick or ban anyone else without admin needed. I think this is a horrible idea, and told him how it could be easily abused. Of course, suddenly he's all like "agree that it's good or we can't be friends" and he has all my other friends ganging up on me. I seriously cannot comprehend what drove him to this. Who's right in this situation? (Note this is serious, they're my friends in real life and I don't want to lose them.)
Well, if he says something along the lines of "Do this or we won't be friends", you may want to reconsider whether he's actually your friend or not. Friends should not/do not say this... and honestly, fighting & arguing over something on TF2 irl..? That's the stupidest thing i've heard all day.
If you really need to have them as friends, just agree with them
To be honest, they are my ONLY friends, so I guess I will have to agree with them.
What I would do is agree for now, but maybe start questioning whether they're actually your friends or not. Would they be there for you when the whole world is against you? If you don't think so, but you still need friends, I would maybe start talking with other people, and slowely make friends with people who you can relate with more, while releasing your grip on them. Nothing has to be abrupt.
What I would do is agree for now, but maybe start questioning whether they're actually your friends or not. Would they be there for you when the whole world is against you? If you don't think so, but you still need friends, I would maybe start talking with other people, and slowely make friends with people who you can relate with more, while releasing your grip on them. Nothing has to be abrupt.
Very much agree as they don't seem to be very good friends at all if they are honestly serious about that statement. I dropped about 5 friends this year that I have known since High-school, and realized finally they were not really friends at all but just drinking/drug buddies. They would never hang out with me except when doing such things. Now I have a best friend and 2 others but am better off without the drama I dealt with and happier :D.
Yea this isn't to good if your friend going far lengths to force his opinion on you, its just so wrong in so many ways. I personally have been in solitude for a year because I just can't stand how people treat me. I find new friends down the road and move on.
Well I did something wrong Not really, because I ended up finding friends that I've devoted everything too. Made the Diamond Raiders and enjoying life like I never did before. ElementalChaos, It is a hard move, and not all people can do it. But if you want friends who are willing to give their life for you, there by making you wanting to do the same. I suggest doing what is right. Put down the argument and ask the real question: "Are you my friend? Because if you really are, why you put me in this situation?"
Leave it like that and see his response. If its anything other than sorry in the end of his talk/rant. I'd say end it and find new friends. But remember, I found friendships fast, but the commitments didn't settle till a year after.
Everyone is different or has better or worse luck. Its all of how you treat people and what you're looking for. It takes guts, or horrible event, or both. In the end what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. I learned that the hard way and man it pays off.
Best of luck in all of your endeavors.
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So he demands that you change your opinion on a mod for a video game?
Is this person 9 or 10 years old?
Laugh in his face and leave you can make better friends than that
If he does end up making that plugin/mod/whatever-you-tf2-people-call-it, I can promise you the people will ban as much as possible the second they figure out how to use it.
It depends on how important your friends are to you. It seems like such a stupid thing for them to get worked up about... and for the record, I agree with you, that sounds like a very idiotic plugin. However, if you really want to keep your friends, then it's probably best just to put it aside and let them have their way. It's only a video game, after all.
To be honest, they are my ONLY friends, so I guess I will have to agree with them.
If you really need to have them as friends, just agree with them
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What I would do is agree for now, but maybe start questioning whether they're actually your friends or not. Would they be there for you when the whole world is against you? If you don't think so, but you still need friends, I would maybe start talking with other people, and slowely make friends with people who you can relate with more, while releasing your grip on them. Nothing has to be abrupt.
Very much agree as they don't seem to be very good friends at all if they are honestly serious about that statement. I dropped about 5 friends this year that I have known since High-school, and realized finally they were not really friends at all but just drinking/drug buddies. They would never hang out with me except when doing such things. Now I have a best friend and 2 others but am better off without the drama I dealt with and happier :D.
Well I did something wrong Not really, because I ended up finding friends that I've devoted everything too. Made the Diamond Raiders and enjoying life like I never did before. ElementalChaos, It is a hard move, and not all people can do it. But if you want friends who are willing to give their life for you, there by making you wanting to do the same. I suggest doing what is right. Put down the argument and ask the real question: "Are you my friend? Because if you really are, why you put me in this situation?"
Leave it like that and see his response. If its anything other than sorry in the end of his talk/rant. I'd say end it and find new friends. But remember, I found friendships fast, but the commitments didn't settle till a year after.
Everyone is different or has better or worse luck. Its all of how you treat people and what you're looking for. It takes guts, or horrible event, or both. In the end what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. I learned that the hard way and man it pays off.
Best of luck in all of your endeavors.
- Maxos
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Is this person 9 or 10 years old?
Laugh in his face and leave you can make better friends than that
You are right in this situation since yes it can be abused because if you suddenly died you would just kick them off the server for fun
So really there is no point of making that plugin for TF2
Just doing this so you know who it is
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If he does end up making that plugin/mod/whatever-you-tf2-people-call-it, I can promise you the people will ban as much as possible the second they figure out how to use it.
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The mod probably won't get anywhere either way
Non-Admins kicking/banning people would make the Server become utter garbage.
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