It seems that this kind of server is near impossible to find.
All I want is a simple, Vanilla with all items enabled, decently populated (10+ at most hours) server with nothing but Hey0 for /sethome, /home, and /spawn. I'd prefer it whitelist as well
Every server has either banned items (TNT & Flinttinder), Is a ghost town if it has those enabled and Hey0, or doesn't have the Hey0 for the home and spawn commands so you're stuck in a horridly cramped space unless you wanna spend an hour walking to your home each time you die.
Honestly I don't know of any public servers with this setup. If you want this specific setup, you might want to start your own server. Most people choose to add more plugins to protect from greifers and enhance gameplay (hence the ghost towns)
Oh I don't mind if they have other mods in them aswell. It's just that cursed World Guard that disables TNT and Flint. Every server has it!
And I know I can't be the only person that rages everytime he sees a server with tages like [Hardcore] and [PVP] where you can kill someone anywhere as part of the server. But they BAN TNT? What the hell is up with that?
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I don't have this exact setup, but TNT and lighters are enabled outside protected Cuboids. But those are small compared to all the wilderness between them and no one can be self-sufficient inside it. There are no banned items except those that cannot be acquired through normal gameplay (water/lava blocks, for example. Buckets are allowed). Link is in my signature, if you want to try it out.