I would do it face-to-face, although I can't really say as I have never had a girlfreind (P.S. Just so you don't treat me like to much of a kid considering my username and picture, I am fourteen)
Might work, but the chance is very small, you should wait a little more, you're too young for that yet, i know how you feel, in this age everyone feels like "I'm ready", i know that because that's how i feel too, but it is not time yet
About the idea, you would need some hard to achieve circunstances, it is easier to show it in the face of the one you love, they say
Or you could go through the tried and true method of not dating. My friend does this, and it suits him well.
He also thinks that he was put on this Earth solely to kill commies, and that he's going to go back to Korea and kick Kim Jong Un's ass.
Your friend... He is going to be something great.
OT: Stupid idea is stupid. Just ask her out in person, but whatever. You are young, so it is not like the relationship would go anywhere at all.
Since you are probably going to do this, here is a tip, be confident. Don't be too confident, or you will just look like a jerk. If you aren't confident enough, you will look like a pushover, and that is also bad.
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I can't really say much on this, seeing as I've have yet to even meet my girlfriend IRL. Though I never really, quote on quote, "asked her out", our relationship just kinda... happened. Anyways, I don't see what all the fuss is about, just let the guy ask her out how he wants. If the girl's a hardcore gamer, there can't be too much wrong with it. Chances are it's not gonna last either way. Not to dash the kid's hopes or anything, but he is only 12.
yes because what ever we say to him is so much crueler than him losing a friend / girl he likes for acting in a way we do not recomend out of own experience, or common dating sense(!?) maybe.
So yea lets see how it goes in the video, after that we can have a comment flame war here XD
Hey now, just because a girl says no doesn't be mean they can't still be friends. I know plenty of people that got rejected and yet continued to remain friends. Granted, stuff like that is kinda rare...
Hey now, just because a girl says no doesn't be mean they can't still be friends. I know plenty of people that got rejected and yet continued to remain friends. Granted, stuff like that is kinda rare...
Then you just get "friend zoned" and you have to live the rest of your life watching the girl you like dating other people, and having to be supportive of it too. Just hope you dont like her too much if this happens. Otherwise it just becomes awkward because she knows you like her, but she isn't into you, and you just end up not talking much.
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A wise person once said: "Offense is never given, only taken."
Then you just get "friend zoned" and you have to live the rest of your life watching the girl you like dating other people, and having to be supportive of it too. Just hope you dont like her too much if this happens. Otherwise it just becomes awkward because she knows you like her, but she isn't into you, and you just end up not talking much.
Here's the thing: Friendzoning should be titled 'broadest popular term of the year'. It's completely conditional. There are so many - for emphasis, so many factors in relationships - partnerships and otherwise - that just like to compile into this big unique block of relationship. And if you want to ask someone out, or interact with them in a new way, you've got to think about all the little parts of that block and how they come together and if they would fit correctly if aforementioned action takes place.
And this is where you can't go Google something or ask a random person for advice. You've got to use that noggin of yours to think of everything that will or may happen with relationships. Personal wisdom is applicable as universal principle, but is rarely exactly adequate for it. The only personal wisdom I can hold to be a truth is this: ALL WOMEN ARE INSANE.
It is in your head to figure out how to not mess things up.
TL;DR no it is not a matter of just you could get friendzoned unless you're 10 because 10 year olds are real basic like that.
*Looks at your username...*
So much beta in this thread.
You: Will you go out with me?
Her: No.
You: Oh... ok.... want to go mine some coal?
:l
In which case you'll lose her. Forever.
http://www.minecraftforum.net/forums/minecraft-discussion/suggestions/2244263-the-sawmill
About the idea, you would need some hard to achieve circunstances, it is easier to show it in the face of the one you love, they say
no sig yay
OT: Stupid idea is stupid. Just ask her out in person, but whatever. You are young, so it is not like the relationship would go anywhere at all.
Since you are probably going to do this, here is a tip, be confident. Don't be too confident, or you will just look like a jerk. If you aren't confident enough, you will look like a pushover, and that is also bad.
Dude, I love your responses. And I kind of love you, the way you talk and act. Wanna go out sometime?
Not really. No one here is being a submissive type. More like a delta around here. :V
go ahead and do what you want op. post reactions too.
You should just walk up to her IRL and ask her out.
This. Please, post screenshots of it. Good luck. I heartily encourage you to do it.
He's teaching me how to say bad things in Korean as well.
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Are you actually condoning this..
Yes, I firmly believe this is the most effective method of going about it.
Then you just get "friend zoned" and you have to live the rest of your life watching the girl you like dating other people, and having to be supportive of it too. Just hope you dont like her too much if this happens. Otherwise it just becomes awkward because she knows you like her, but she isn't into you, and you just end up not talking much.
Here's the thing: Friendzoning should be titled 'broadest popular term of the year'. It's completely conditional. There are so many - for emphasis, so many factors in relationships - partnerships and otherwise - that just like to compile into this big unique block of relationship. And if you want to ask someone out, or interact with them in a new way, you've got to think about all the little parts of that block and how they come together and if they would fit correctly if aforementioned action takes place.
And this is where you can't go Google something or ask a random person for advice. You've got to use that noggin of yours to think of everything that will or may happen with relationships. Personal wisdom is applicable as universal principle, but is rarely exactly adequate for it. The only personal wisdom I can hold to be a truth is this: ALL WOMEN ARE INSANE.
It is in your head to figure out how to not mess things up.
TL;DR no it is not a matter of just you could get friendzoned unless you're 10 because 10 year olds are real basic like that.