I have this friend. He's fun to hang around with and stuff but he tends to get extremely annoying... like fly buzzing around in your room while you're pissed about something. I don't really know what to do about him... here's a few ways he gets annoying.
Blames you for everything HE does.
If he doesn't get his way he throws a fit.
Spoiled, rich, can't take a simple joke.
He's a "follower" around a couple of kids (who happen to be kids i hate) and looses all his personality when he's around them and becomes a complete jerk.
EXTREMELY LAZY in our computer class last year, his computer "wasn't working" so he took my seat. I tell him to let me sit in my seat and he says no. Turns out his computer was shut off and i had to sit in another room.
Complains about everything
He tries to put me in holds and stuff but he has no idea what he's doing and almost broke my arm at one point and yelled at me for being mad at him.
And thats just the tip of the iceberg... But he is a good friend when he isn't like that and i like hanging out with him. I can trust him. He knows most of my secrets. And we have some good times together. I have tried to fix the problem before by allowing the 5 complaints a day rule. Which is just as the name suggests. He gets 5 complaints a day and if he goes over his limit for the week (35) we tickle him. (He's extremely ticklish and actually karate chopped a table in half when we tickled him once). That worked for a little while but not really long term...
What do you guys think i should do? I've tried ignoring him but all he does is talk during the classes we have together and he sits right next to me. So its a tad bit harder than usual.
Thanks in advance.
-Bonkify
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No I'm just kidding, but how old is he? it's probably not a good idea to give your friends rules they're supposed to follow, I mean your friends not eachother's parents. But them again I don't know how old he is so it's kind of difficult to help out.
I had a "friend" like the one that you describe. I stopped talking to him for two years. about a year ago I talked with him again, and he's changed. Why was he like this? Immaturity. Everybody outgrows it eventually, and I'm sure your friend will do the same.
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No I'm just kidding, but how old is he? it's probably not a good idea to give your friends rules they're supposed to follow, I mean your friends not eachother's parents. But them again I don't know how old he is so it's kind of difficult to help out.
early teens. but the rule did work with him and he was less annoying for maybe a month/month and a half.
I had a "friend" like the one that you describe. I stopped talking to him for two years. about a year ago I talked with him again, and he's changed. Why was he like this? Immaturity. Everybody outgrows it eventually, and I'm sure your friend will do the same.
its going to be a little harder to stop talking to him because our last names are almost identical and everything in my school is in alphabetic order by last name. Example- seating charts, homeroom, and that kind of stuff. Also hes planning on taking a lot of the same classes i am.
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early teens. but the rule did work with him and he was less annoying for maybe a month/month and a half.
its going to be a little harder to stop talking to him because our last names are almost identical and everything in my school is in alphabetic order by last name. Example- seating charts, homeroom, and that kind of stuff. Also hes planning on taking a lot of the same classes i am.
Stop talking to him, if he is in the same classes ask to move to a different classroom.
That happened to me once, of course I told him we weren't friends any more and then he was an inch close to breaking my arm.
Of course right before he did I kicked him in the crotch...
Yeah just ignore him...
Hes insecure, for whatever reason, and thus hes trying to dominate you. To be honest, it sounds like he is dominating you.
This is less about him, and more about you. You have too much give, and he takes advantage of it. Be honest with him, stand your ground. He needs to hear it from someone, may as well be you.
You've got to set the rules here. Show him that what he's doing is not okay. If he a loyal friend, then he'll adapt to the situation. If not then you are better without him.
Have we got the same friend?
i have a "big" friend who stalks me everywhere i mean everywhere! no offence but because not many people like him when he follows me he makes me look like an idiot when he is angry at me he does holds and almost breaks my arms.
funniest thing is how even though he stalks me he complains about a boy called tom who sometimes follows me too he says like "oh my god its tom run he'll stalk us!!!" or " Tom is a nerd what would you be like if he was following you now?"
it makes me wanna say i dunno but i'd like it if you stopped too
oh thing is i can't get rid of him as a friend because we have birthdays on the same day and my mum always invites him round and is friends with his mum
i keep tellnig him how he stalks me and he says "no im not im talking to you" when he..well he isn't hes following me for no reason.
I had a similar case with one of my friends, who quite frankly doesn't happen to be my friend anymore (as I took the right path with the right choice). He was also a good friend from what I could tell. When we were younger he would come over to my place quite often and we would have fun playing games and doing stuff.
But then at some point he became a complete asshole and I just couldn't stand him. He had always had this sort of annoying personality hidden inside of him and sometimes it was so frustrating to deal with him. One of the most annoying things about him was that he always claimed to be right about everything and kept arguing about something for hours when he was clearly wrong. Then we had to look it up on the internet or ask someone else. *sigh*
And yes, I had also told him quite many of my little and big secrets. And then this one point came when he just blatantly revealed most of my secrets to people - and he probably didn't even realize that I would find it offensive. I'm still made fun of some of these "secrets" even up to this day.
Well, what can I do? This thing that they call "real life" has never been the place for me. I feel so much more accepted as what I am... here in the internet, with people who can relate to me and where I can relate to them.
But yes, you need to ditch this kid. He is not a good friend. I thought wrong and learnt my lesson. It's weird because we were friends for an awful long time... but he ended up being an asshole.
Hes insecure, for whatever reason, and thus hes trying to dominate you. To be honest, it sounds like he is dominating you.
This is less about him, and more about you. You have too much give, and he takes advantage of it. Be honest with him, stand your ground. He needs to hear it from someone, may as well be you.
Ever since I had a lot of arguments with a past friend, which involved us both getting hyper, we stopped communicating in real life (almost) and started communicating over the Internet. Easier to manage, and you can think over what you have to say.
I suggest you try that.
No I'm just kidding, but how old is he? it's probably not a good idea to give your friends rules they're supposed to follow, I mean your friends not eachother's parents. But them again I don't know how old he is so it's kind of difficult to help out.
I have a friend just like this! Only problem is that she evolved to be just plain annoying now, and whenever I defriend her she just comes right back like you threw a bouncing ball at a wall. Sooner or later your friend will become just like mine, teasing you about your secrets. Since you told him secrets you can't turn around. What I do with my "friend" is pretty horrible, but I honestly think she deserves it. First, I got her to think we are both extremely smart, so whenever she gets a bad grade she feels bad. Then I trick her into thinking falses and she's becoming more withdrawn because of it. She stopped bothering me as much. It's horrible, I know, but that seems like the easiest way out in your situation...
What do you guys think i should do? I've tried ignoring him but all he does is talk during the classes we have together and he sits right next to me. So its a tad bit harder than usual.
Thanks in advance.
-Bonkify
No I'm just kidding, but how old is he? it's probably not a good idea to give your friends rules they're supposed to follow, I mean your friends not eachother's parents. But them again I don't know how old he is so it's kind of difficult to help out.
early teens. but the rule did work with him and he was less annoying for maybe a month/month and a half.
its going to be a little harder to stop talking to him because our last names are almost identical and everything in my school is in alphabetic order by last name. Example- seating charts, homeroom, and that kind of stuff. Also hes planning on taking a lot of the same classes i am.
Stop talking to him, if he is in the same classes ask to move to a different classroom.
That happened to me once, of course I told him we weren't friends any more and then he was an inch close to breaking my arm.
Of course right before he did I kicked him in the crotch...
Yeah just ignore him...
It may be annoying to do, but I think he needs to know what he's doing.
Also, it'll get it off your chest.
actually we had a bit of a confrontation with him... a bunch of us told him that. still didn't stop him..
This is less about him, and more about you. You have too much give, and he takes advantage of it. Be honest with him, stand your ground. He needs to hear it from someone, may as well be you.
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You can't really change him, you can only change yourself.
And that would be ****ing stupid.
The egg takes time to hatch.
i'll try a lot of these and i'm glad im getting help from people who have had it happen to them.
thanks for the help guys. i really appreciate it!
Ever since I had a lot of arguments with a past friend, which involved us both getting hyper, we stopped communicating in real life (almost) and started communicating over the Internet. Easier to manage, and you can think over what you have to say.
I suggest you try that.
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So one day, he asked me if I believed in Evolution on facebook, I said yes.
He then asked me if I was a Christian, I said I was an atheist.
He then said screw you and I replied, "Screw you too, I don't need no close minded christians as friends" and unfriended him.
My life was better.
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EDIT: lol i cant believe thats your first post! congrats anyways.