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Posted 05 April 2011 - 11:16 PM

So I've had a huge crush on this girl since september of last year. I've been wanting to ask her out for a long time but I couldn't, then around february some other guy asked her out and they went out for a month but he broke up with her for no reason (her friends and I think he just wanted to fuck her). They broke two weeks ago, and I made sure I would ask her out this week, and I did today.

I was leaving school at the end of the day and saw her as usual by her locker, and she told me to stay after school with her because she was bored. No I'm not sure why but she does this with a lot of her friends so I don't know if it's really special with me although as far as I know I'm the first guy to be asked to stay after school with her, or the second. Anyway we were there for a couple hours talking and stuff, and a couple times she would say "guess what" and I would ask, then she would say "uhh I forgot." After a while, the "late bus" came, and when we got on it I finally asked her out. She kind of laughed in a surprised way, and then asked me if I just asked that and I said yes, then she asked if I liked her I said yes, then I asked her what she says and she said "I don't know this is so random."

So I tried giving her time on the bus to think but she said the same thing and the 3rd time she said I was making it awkward. Then after that we were still talking and whatever and then she had to get off so I asked for a hug, she gave me a hug, then got off the bus.

So I'm asking you guys, what is this supposed to mean? This is the first time I asked out a girl by the way, I'm 15 and I think she's 15 or 14 (last time I asked her age she said she was 14).

Right now I'm feeling emotionless, not happy, not sad, just meh. But I'm reallly thinking about this.

tl;dr,I asked a girl out, she said "I don't know this is so random" and what does that mean?
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Posted 05 April 2011 - 11:19 PM

Mabye give her more time. It has only been 2 weeks since her last break up. Once some more time goes by (not too much) Make your move...smooth and swift.

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Posted 05 April 2011 - 11:21 PM

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But I'm reallly thinking about this.

don't. don't worry about it. be a friend, listen to her but dont follow her around. if she cares she'll seek you out. wait a couple weeks and ask again. be casual. be confident.

women cant help themselves around confident men.
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Posted 05 April 2011 - 11:23 PM

I would say that's a no. sorry man.

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Posted 05 April 2011 - 11:25 PM

The_Atheist said:

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But I'm reallly thinking about this.

don't. don't worry about it. be a friend, listen to her but dont follow her around. if she cares she'll seek you out. wait a couple weeks and ask again. be casual. be confident.

women cant help themselves around confident men.

Not thinking about it is almost impossible for me. Whenever nothing's on my mind, she just comes in out of nowhere. That was before I asked her out, right now It's just in the background of everything I'm thinking about. I can be thinking about something in a TV show or be reading a book and it will still be there.
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Posted 05 April 2011 - 11:27 PM

Young love is really complicated and hard to understand. I would give her time for her to admit she likes you too, or if she's too nervous she may never come out and say it.

If you want her to go out with you, just be honest about it. I asked a girl I was crushing on hard in HS and she didn't flat out say "no" she said something like "I'm afraid I don't know you that well" or something like that. Which is true, I was always so shy around her I hardly said anything before admitting my feelings.

Anyway take it easy.

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Posted 05 April 2011 - 11:32 PM

Newlemming said:

Young love is really complicated and hard to understand. I would give her time for her to admit she likes you too, or if she's too nervous she may never come out and say it.

If you want her to go out with you, just be honest about it. I asked a girl I was crushing on hard in HS and she didn't flat out say "no" she said something like "I'm afraid I don't know you that well" or something like that. Which is true, I was always so shy around her I hardly said anything before admitting my feelings.

Anyway take it easy.

What do you mean by "be honest about it?"
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Posted 05 April 2011 - 11:33 PM

tonbonthemon said:

Newlemming said:

Young love is really complicated and hard to understand. I would give her time for her to admit she likes you too, or if she's too nervous she may never come out and say it.

If you want her to go out with you, just be honest about it. I asked a girl I was crushing on hard in HS and she didn't flat out say "no" she said something like "I'm afraid I don't know you that well" or something like that. Which is true, I was always so shy around her I hardly said anything before admitting my feelings.

Anyway take it easy.

What do you mean by "be honest about it?"

Ah wait sorry I missed the part where you told her you did like her. Still, if she's not giving you a straight answer give her more time yeah?

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Posted 05 April 2011 - 11:35 PM

It means the SAME DAMN THING as when a guy says it. >:U
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Posted 05 April 2011 - 11:39 PM

mrwormy said:

It means the SAME DAMN THING as when a guy says it. >:U

That's kind of hard to understand. Like usually when some guy touches a girl's ass she freaks out, even though it looks pretty much like she wants to be checked out based on her clothing. I never understood how they felt until a girl touched my ass. I just thought it was weird and unnecessary.

So until a girl actually asks me out and I say I don't know, I won't know what it meant when this girl said it, although it could mean a number things, but I'm asking on this forum because people might have experience and NOBODY ever answers my questions on Yahoo answers.
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Posted 05 April 2011 - 11:43 PM

tonbonthemon said:

mrwormy said:

It means the SAME DAMN THING as when a guy says it. >:U

That's kind of hard to understand. Like usually when some guy touches a girl's ass she freaks out, even though it looks pretty much like she wants to be checked out based on her clothing. I never understood how they felt until a girl touched my ass. I just thought it was weird and unnecessary.

So until a girl actually asks me out and I say I don't know, I won't know what it meant when this girl said it, although it could mean a number things, but I'm asking on this forum because people might have experience and NOBODY ever answers my questions on Yahoo answers.

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OT: At least she didn't say "I'll think about it." that always means a big N O.

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Posted 05 April 2011 - 11:45 PM

That's a maybe, dude.

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Posted 06 April 2011 - 12:19 AM

Awesome Holzy said:

That's a maybe, dude.
What do you mean by that?

Also sorry if I ask questions I really feel I have to know what's going on exactly.
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Posted 06 April 2011 - 12:32 AM

...If you're that interested in what it means, ask a psychologist.
Unless you pay me, then, I'll send you what it means in another language you don't understand :iapprove:
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Posted 06 April 2011 - 12:36 AM

Si1entSniper said:

...If you're that interested in what it means, ask a psychologist.
Unless you pay me, then, I'll send you what it means in another language you don't understand :)

It seems kind of pointless to go to a psychologist just to ask what this means. I think it's better to ask multiple people instead.
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Posted 06 April 2011 - 12:39 AM

It means that she might not know if she wants to get into another relationship right now. Give her time and don't constantly bother her about it. Just act normally around her and she will give you a straight answer sooner or later.
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Posted 06 April 2011 - 12:40 AM

She's on her period.

JK: When she says "I don't know" it probably means that when you asked her, it was an awkward time to do it. Talk to her when you guys are alone or something.

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Posted 06 April 2011 - 12:47 AM

GravCat said:

She's on her period.

JK: When she says "I don't know" it probably means that when you asked her, it was an awkward time to do it. Talk to her when you guys are alone or something.

Yeah haha she doesn't bitch when she's on her period luckily...

I tried asking her when we were alone but it was just so hard.
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Posted 06 April 2011 - 12:50 AM

tonbonthemon said:

GravCat said:

She's on her period.

JK: When she says "I don't know" it probably means that when you asked her, it was an awkward time to do it. Talk to her when you guys are alone or something.

Yeah haha she doesn't bitch when she's on her period luckily...

I tried asking her when we were alone but it was just so hard.

When you are alone you just sort of go like, "soo.. umm.. have you decided yet?" or something along those lines, trust me.

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Posted 06 April 2011 - 12:55 AM

there seems only one alternative.....
you will need:
rope
roofies
a chair
a dark lair


you know what to do :D
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