From this whole thing, it only makes one think, 'who's in charge?' For the way I see it, the kid runs the household and the parent is just an exhausted servant. I mean, you're his father. If he's just going to be a spoiled whining brat about it, see to it that he gets some sort of punishment out of it. As another user said, take away the game. Maybe restrict access. Don't just stand there and let him scream his silly lines that have no sense or authority in the real world. It's a game, it's not real life. So man up and take charge like a true parent. If he cries, let him. If he whines, let him. It's going to do absolutely nothing for him in the long run. You are the one who has to be in control, no matter the circumstance here, or no matter how old he is. If he's older, he should know better and shouldn't embarrass himself, if he is quite a bit younger, he will only learn from experience, and if he knows that this behavior is wrong, he will eventually grow out of it.
On a side note, many people would be inclined to believe that you are not the father of this boy. Maybe you're not an adult at all, or just maybe English isn't your first language. For the writing is more of a kid's to be honest. With the incorrect grammar and misspelling, not knowing what 'ban' means, (I mean, come on man, it's the same in the game as you'd see it anywhere else) Or maybe even the fact that the words are over exaggerated. By which I mean the excessive caps and question marks. Though in this case, I'll trust you in your statement, and will answer to the best of my ability.
On another note, I'd not try to give out too much information on yourselves. It's not that good if the whole world ends up knowing your identities. I'm not saying you did anything wrong here, but names are not really necessary, even when asking for help in this scenario.
On another side note, I'd be embarrassed as a parent to begin with. Here I am, not even out of high school myself, and I'm giving advice to an adult that needs help taking care of their own kid. There are a lot of places to go to, I mean, much better places than the very thing that's causing the problem. So how about you disconnect that computer, and sign your kid up for some activities. Placing him in a good soccer team, maybe a book club, anything that could take his mind off of endless gaming.
Then again, it's not my decision to make, but as you got him the game, as he's your son, he's your responsibility.
Cheers.
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one thing to say, ban means permanently kick or not give them permission to play that specific game.
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if any of you have op, do /kill @e[type=ender_dragon]
it should work.
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I have been playing since 2016-ish (late 1.11.2), I'm a pretty new player but I know mostly everything 'bout it.
Not that much to say though, I was a shy person when I was playing MC at those times, and didn't know what to do, but since I grew up then I became less shy n' that.
Cheers.
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Yeah, maybe this isn't the place for the thread but I'm searching for player to play with in my server, since I have kinda no friends which join me in it.
Anyways, my server is pure vanilla, no plugins or mods. It has the max of 5 players, and has a swamp biome nearby it. (I'm also currently moving to a Jungle biome)
Cheers.
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Maybe It's because they're sitting on you guys' shoulders.
Just maybe.
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well sure thing, mate! if you don't have discord, can you make one please? that's the only way we can contact eachother, because i'm mostly on it and not here. also, do you know how to make a modded server..?
cheers,
- ruax2891