Blaming others because of your ineptitude and saying reality doesn't work the way it does doesn't allow us magically able to help you.
If you really look at what's going on you can see networking is 32-bit based and the way forge is may look the way it does but it will lead to fragmentation.
Which also gets me to looking at Minecraft and the basis of Minecraft code and for that matter servers in general possibly.
Because if on the forge side of the basis is being fragmented then it has to be cleaned up somewhere of the base code of Minecraft. Which would or may appear as a container but really wouldn't be and that's how the base code of Minecraft would be fragmented and damaged. It's almost similar to a mass ratio inspiral. If you don't keep the outside sphere spinning around the one in the middle then it goes inside the one in the middle and doesn't exist anymore. That or the sphere in the middle changes, fragments, or is corrupted.
The basis of the argument being 64-bit existing before 32-bit results in fragmentation or corruption.
So forge will either have to be 32-bit or be separated from the base code of Minecraft which would make it to where there's not modding for Minecraft anymore.
Build and notepad though. I got notepad.