Quote from sansavarous »Does the IP address you're giving your friend start with 192.168 or 10.0 ?
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Quote from sansavarous »Is your friend typing letters or numbers?
Unknown Host is usually returned by DNS when a hostname lookup fails.
If you're using the IP address DNS should never enter the picture.
Double check that your friend is only entering the IP address.