Microsoft can do whatever they do. It is their game. If they get feedback on forums, where people post comments, some of it strong feedback, then possibly they'll allow players who feel passionate about a new UI feature to have the option to turn it off. I don't like the direction this leads, not having control over UI notifications I am seeing. What next? Little advertisement messages I can't control? It is creepy.
There's nothing creepy about a standard tutorial that has been in gaming for over a decade. Follow the directions and move on, it's that simple.