Not to sound like a rude ass, but crying about it doesn't help the case. I've always been told that.
I've been told that too. I've never liked it. I've always held the philosophy that coping with troubles is something personal and should be done however is best for the individual. If crying helps you, then that's what you should do. But that's just what I think.
I was also fighting a few guys to defend the honor and public debt of two of my satellites from Sweden and Belgium. I think Denmark made if five briefly when they moved in to take back some land my allies won from them a while ago. But that was after I decided to let Belgium have its way because they weren't important.
I beat Austria, got white-peace (I think) from Sweden, and then moved to Denmark, which is as follows:
Current results we want: Iceland and Greenland are independent (myself), Danish East (Or West?) Indies/Danish Guinea (Saxony/Bremen) (In either event if not one, the other was added), Jylland or what's-its-name is ceded to someone. Full results in the following images. Point is: we got it all and reduced Denmark to practically nothing.
Jylland is a funny tale too... Just a day or two before I could there one of my satellites who won it in an earlier war surrendered it to the Danes. Hanover claimed it as their own during the war and won it.
And now I am the North German federation gunning for the German Empire, and I own it all.