Ok so My friend knew I REALLY REALLY liked this girl for 2 years so I tell him I am gonna try to go out with her. Before I get a chance he asked her out and got her. He promised he would not go after her and he lied.... :/ I am pretty sad and mad right now
Well, if that woman chose him over you (assuming she knew you were gonna' ask her out), she wasn't worth it.
If she didn't know, than beat the **** out of your so-called friend and demand he part ways with your woman, because it wasn't 'fair game'.
Well, if that woman chose him over you (assuming she knew you were gonna' ask her out), she wasn't worth it.
If she didn't know, than beat the **** out of your so-called friend and demand he part ways with your woman, because it wasn't 'fair game'.
I did tell him he better break up with her..He refused we are not friends right now but we will forgive eachother most likely
Is the girl still your friend? If so, why does it matter if your friend "goes out" with her? If you like the girl, you should respect her right to have multiple "guy friends", and not succumb to pointless jealousy.
Is the girl still your friend? If so, why does it matter if your friend "goes out" with her? If you like the girl, you should respect her right to have multiple "guy friends", and not succumb to pointless jealousy.
Cut the nonsense, its clear the OP wants something more than friendship. The issue isn't pointless jealousy, its emotional pain directed at his own personal failure, getting screwed over, and having to watch another male be close to the girl in the manner he wanted to be.
I've seen a lot of your posts, and if you're going to play it the way you have been, at least do it right. Trace it back to the real source.
On topic - He isn't your best friend. You waited though, and you only have yourself to blame. Try to get used to that fact.
Cut the nonsense, its clear the OP wants something more than friendship. The issue isn't pointless jealousy, its emotional pain directed at his own personal failure, getting screwed over, and having to watch another male be close to the girl in the manner he wanted to be.
I've seen a lot of your posts, and if you're going to play it the way you have been, at least do it right. Trace it back to the real source.
On topic - He isn't your best friend. You waited though, and you only have yourself to blame. Try to get used to that fact.
Alright, whatever you say. Life is so much happier when you look at it from a logical standpoint, but if you all wish to be prey to emotions, I won't interfere.
I'm not entirely sure what you mean by "more then friends", though. It's such a cliche saying these days, and it's very vauge. At this age, it's not like you're going to marry or anything. What exactly is the difference?
Alright, whatever you say. Life is so much happier when you look at it from a logical standpoint, but if you all wish to be prey to emotions, I won't interfere.
I'm not entirely sure what you mean by "more then friends", though. It's such a cliche saying these days, and it's very vauge. At this age, it's not like you're going to marry or anything. What exactly is the difference?
I am looking at it from a logical standpoint, any answer that isn't thinking from within the OP's frame of reference is useless. In that regard, stripping the emotional portion from a response renders it null. As a sidenote, you don't operate solely on logic. I can tell you with certainty if that were the case, you'd be bored and uncomfortable. The mind should be dominant, I agree, but not to a point where it refuses to acknowledge the emotion that exists alongside it.
As for the cliche term, "more than friends", the difference lies mainly in interpersonal interaction. "State of the self". It makes people feel needed and important, thus being sought after. I'd like you to explain how marriage differs from friendship, as I thought it was peculiar you referenced that specifically.
I am looking at it from a logical standpoint, any answer that isn't thinking from within the OP's frame of reference is useless. In that regard, stripping the emotional portion from a response renders it null. As a sidenote, you don't operate solely on logic. I can tell you with certainty if that were the case, you'd be bored and uncomfortable. The mind should be dominant, I agree, but not to a point where it refuses to acknowledge the emotion that exists alongside it.
As for the cliche term, "more than friends", the difference lies mainly in interpersonal interaction. "State of the self". It makes people feel needed and important, thus being sought after. I'd like you to explain how marriage differs from friendship, as I thought it was peculiar you referenced that specifically.
I suppose marriage isn't very different from friendship, unless you are counting the ability to freely reproduce, and the economic benefits that come from it. Anyways, I'll leave and let people who can actually think from the OP's state of reference discuss this. I feel like my state of reference is simpler and brings more happiness, and I don't like to see people unnessesarily depressed, especially with the increased rate of suicide these days. But I'm not the most empathetic person, and I don't really have anything else to say anymore.
I suppose marriage isn't very different from friendship, unless you are counting the ability to freely reproduce, and the economic benefits that come from it. Anyways, I'll leave and let people who can actually think from the OP's state of reference discuss this. I feel like my state of reference is simpler and brings more happiness, and I don't like to see people unnessesarily depressed, especially with the increased rate of suicide these days. But I'm not the most empathetic person, and I don't really have anything else to say anymore.
Seems I've misunderstood you. You have my apologies.
Seems like whenever I eat something I'm allergic to I always make a ***** of myself.
It's fine. I do have a strange way of wording things, and have gotten diagnosed as a Schizoid before.
Anyways, the only thing I can suggest is talking to the girl or your friend. Have you told the girl how you feel about her yet? She might be willing to go out with both of you (not even at the same time) if you do. As for your friend, did he do it purposely to hurt you? If so, he's probably not a good friend for you to have.
How old are you anyway? If you're young enough to say "I'm not gonna be your best friend because you made me mad" at some guy who got with a girl you like, then you're too young to be dating anyway. Sorry.
Ok so My friend knew I REALLY REALLY liked this girl for 2 years so I tell him I am gonna try to go out with her. Before I get a chance he asked her out and got her. He promised he would not go after her and he lied.... :/ I am pretty sad and mad right now
Listen, you can't claim ownership over any and every girl you like, your friend liked her to, obviously, and you weren't taking the opportunity to ask her out, so he did. I'm sorry you didn't get your girl, but a lot of the times you just can't. Sorry, and best of luck in the future.
It's fine. I do have a strange way of wording things, and have gotten diagnosed as a Schizoid before.
I fall somewhat on the schizoid side of things myself, with a bit of schizotypal mixed in (dislike closeness) if I really had to put words to it. Tends to fluctuate. Likely shows more in person.
On topic, I suppose I should give something useful after cluttering up the thread. I suggest you talk to your friend, see what (truth or) ******** he tries to give you. Evaluate that, and proceed from there. Things may move in a favorable direction if you push them that way.
Congrats to Acetyl and Emoticone for not turning this thread into a shitfit flamewar, like many other users would upon disagreeing. Your maturity restores my faith in humanity until I venture forth to the "Minecraft General" section above OT.
Anyway, you could just wait until they break up - most, if not all, childhood relationships end that way. Try to console her, be there for her or some mushy stuff like that. I don't know.
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Intelligence is not one and the same with knowledge.
You three (you, your friend, your girl) should have a meeting to talk about how to do, the best way is you and your friend are still good friends, and the girl still belongs to you.
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If she didn't know, than beat the **** out of your so-called friend and demand he part ways with your woman, because it wasn't 'fair game'.
http://www.youtube.c...er?feature=mhee
Fine, do it the boring, moral way.
Cut the nonsense, its clear the OP wants something more than friendship. The issue isn't pointless jealousy, its emotional pain directed at his own personal failure, getting screwed over, and having to watch another male be close to the girl in the manner he wanted to be.
I've seen a lot of your posts, and if you're going to play it the way you have been, at least do it right. Trace it back to the real source.
On topic - He isn't your best friend. You waited though, and you only have yourself to blame. Try to get used to that fact.
Alright, whatever you say. Life is so much happier when you look at it from a logical standpoint, but if you all wish to be prey to emotions, I won't interfere.
I'm not entirely sure what you mean by "more then friends", though. It's such a cliche saying these days, and it's very vauge. At this age, it's not like you're going to marry or anything. What exactly is the difference?
I am looking at it from a logical standpoint, any answer that isn't thinking from within the OP's frame of reference is useless. In that regard, stripping the emotional portion from a response renders it null. As a sidenote, you don't operate solely on logic. I can tell you with certainty if that were the case, you'd be bored and uncomfortable. The mind should be dominant, I agree, but not to a point where it refuses to acknowledge the emotion that exists alongside it.
As for the cliche term, "more than friends", the difference lies mainly in interpersonal interaction. "State of the self". It makes people feel needed and important, thus being sought after. I'd like you to explain how marriage differs from friendship, as I thought it was peculiar you referenced that specifically.
I suppose marriage isn't very different from friendship, unless you are counting the ability to freely reproduce, and the economic benefits that come from it. Anyways, I'll leave and let people who can actually think from the OP's state of reference discuss this. I feel like my state of reference is simpler and brings more happiness, and I don't like to see people unnessesarily depressed, especially with the increased rate of suicide these days. But I'm not the most empathetic person, and I don't really have anything else to say anymore.
Seems I've misunderstood you. You have my apologies.
Seems like whenever I eat something I'm allergic to I always make a ***** of myself.
Anyways, the only thing I can suggest is talking to the girl or your friend. Have you told the girl how you feel about her yet? She might be willing to go out with both of you (not even at the same time) if you do. As for your friend, did he do it purposely to hurt you? If so, he's probably not a good friend for you to have.
This makes very little sense to me...
I fall somewhat on the schizoid side of things myself, with a bit of schizotypal mixed in (dislike closeness) if I really had to put words to it. Tends to fluctuate. Likely shows more in person.
On topic, I suppose I should give something useful after cluttering up the thread. I suggest you talk to your friend, see what (truth or) ******** he tries to give you. Evaluate that, and proceed from there. Things may move in a favorable direction if you push them that way.
Anyway, you could just wait until they break up - most, if not all, childhood relationships end that way. Try to console her, be there for her or some mushy stuff like that. I don't know.
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